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BigbucksA
June 29th, 2011, 04:31 PM
Ok, This might get a little long, so please bare with me, I get confused.

a. Let me start with this, last school year, to the beginning of the year, I told a girl I knew I liked her, I mean, then I began getting on her nerves alot, but she wouldnt say it. She constantly flirted with me, and I flirted with her, people even asked if we were going out, and I said sadly, no. But, I finally got over her, and we are best friends now, however, she still seems a little flirty. We are talking a few weeks ago, right after her boyfriend broke up with her, and I said some of the same stuff I did when I liked her, and she basically said "Im sorry, I should have given you a chance while I had the chance, but we are too close now, I dont want us to get hurt." Could this mean that she likes me.

b. Now, around 5 months ago, I met this girl, she constantly talked to me, and flirted. Then about 2 months ago, while I had a girlfriend, she told me she liked me, that she would have asked me out, or even tried to kiss me when I was single, but then I started going out with an ex of mine. I told my ex, and told her she had nothing to worry about. This girl constantly flirted and such, but then when I broke up with my ex, a few weeks later, we began talking and flirting. Noone likes this girl, and I would probably get made fun of for dating her. But she also has a history of cheating, which scares me. I do like her a bit now, and I am considering if I should ask her out or not. She has confused me the past week, and about had me crying because she said she wasnt sure what she wanted, if she wanted to date me or not, and I had that on my mind and I began getting depressed, and she knew. The other night I told her what was going on. She said "Oh, im so sorry, I feel bad because sometimes I act stupid and don't know what I want." and I said "Well what do you want?" and she just said "You" and I felt great. IDK what to do about this situation.

c. Ok, this is the final situation, which is silly. I started talking to a girl, and she said she is "engaged but single", which confuses me. Anyways, I was telling her about the girl mentioned in paragraph b, and she said that she is gross, but I should do what makes me happy. And I told her, I have trouble finding girls who will give me a chance, then she said that if she wasnt engaged, she would probably give me one. This happening, I had not even hinted that I liked her. Then we talked about the mystery fiance, and she said she isnt sure what the deal is with him, and they talk alot. Thing is, I am starting to like this girl, and the girl mentioned in paragraph b, and I still have feelings kinda for paragraph a.

What should I do about each situation?....What do you guys think about the situations?..

VamosToro
July 3rd, 2011, 07:23 PM
That is a lot going on. About situations A and C those are non-existent at the moment. The girl who you are currently going out with should be your main priority, unless things aren't going well. I understand people may not like her or think she's gross, but it's what you want. Plus if the C girl is talking to you while in a relationship, she would do it to you as well. B girl as you said doesn't know what she wants and could just be staying with you because she feels guilty after seeing you depressed. If it was me though, I wouldn't be thinking about C, dump B, and go to A because she realized she wanted you without you having to look sad or depressed.

-Buenos Suerte

Dog Desab
July 3rd, 2011, 07:28 PM
Sry I'm Soooo lazy that I only read situation A. And in that situation the girl did like you but i know it's hard transitioning from "the friend" stage to the "let's go out" stage. You might still have a chance but it seems a lil' unlikely from the words she used