Having regrets

[Eagle63]

Way back in february, I got into a fight with my then-girlfriend on Valentines day (awkward, right?). I thought I was doing what was best for me.

I have had a girlfriend since then, but we broke up (mutually, still talking), and now I'm having regrets about fighting with the first one.

Even as friends, I can turn to her in any situation and she is still there for me even though I was harsher with her in our breakup than I should have been.

She hasnt seen anyone else since, and this is the same girl I know from the camp that is in this discussion: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=90844

But whatever. How can I break it to her that I still like her (The camp is in 3 weeks, and lasts for 3 weeks)?

[Sage]

If things didn't work the first time, they probably won't work the second time. Don't waste your time living in the past.

[SuperSuraj]

If things didn't work the first time, they probably won't work the second time. Don't waste your time living in the past.

words to live by right here. But if you have to, just approach her straight up about it, i dont see any other way, and go into it not expecting much just so you aren't so deeply committed to it

[Contra]

You sure look like you still have feelings for her and, as you said, you turn to her in any situation, so, if in camp she shows any sign of feeling attracted to you, give it a shot.
If not, then don't mess up a good friendship, because she looks like someone you can count on and that's a good friend.

[Derek951]

Go ahead and bring it up with her. Just be prepared if she doesn't go for the idea. She might not trust (in a romantic way) because of the first break up. Or she might feel you're just looking for a camp fling for the next few weeks. But good luck man.

[Weeping]

If things didn't work the first time, they probably won't work the second time. Don't waste your time living in the past.

^ this

But also, what was the fight about, etc?

[Eagle63]

The fight was about her trying to control me. It was still a long distance relationship, and when I told her that I merely hung out with another girl (just as friends, i swear), she flipped out on me and tried telling me who and who not to hang out with.

Then, after that, she realized that we had been on the phone fighting for an hour, complained about what her bill would be, started crying, and hung up (this was late february).

We didnt talk for 2 months so we just assumed it was a break up and went back to being friends.