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TtotheC
June 29th, 2011, 09:07 AM
Sometimes i could look at an attractive guy and get a weird feeling, i feel really uncomfortable and i get confused at it. Ive been having sexual identity problems lately and i feel like i look at attractive boys just to test myself wether i like them or not. Before my sexual identity problem i NEVER looked at boys, NEVER! i also have a girlfriend, and im truly in love with her. Does it mean i'm gay or bi if i look at boys sometimes? I'm 18.

Unlucky_Leprechaun
June 29th, 2011, 10:25 AM
Curious is how I would identify you. Just go with it and work through it. Just looking really doesn't mean anything unless you act.

thebgsamuel
June 29th, 2011, 10:29 AM
well you can look at boys without being gay you are just comfused! i guess that does not help... dont worry its maybe just a periode and what ever you turn out to be dont worry its ok!

HOLEinyoursoul
June 29th, 2011, 11:03 PM
I get like that too. I've always been like that. You might just be bi. Once you kinda accept it, you start realizing how much fun it is that you can pick out both hot girls and guys walking around :P

SuperSuraj
July 1st, 2011, 01:56 AM
i wouldnt consider you bi, you can just appreciate man beauty haha

Contra
July 1st, 2011, 08:55 AM
I don't believe you're bi, I would say you're curious for now because you don't look like you show any signs of having an emotional attachment towards guys. Besides you have a girlfriend and you're in love with her. I wouldn't sweat it too much, just wait around and it will go away.

DJZS
July 1st, 2011, 10:43 PM
Dont worry about labels. Spend time and figure it out, i know it'll all make sense someday, just keep your mind open.

tyler007
July 17th, 2011, 07:42 AM
So what your just curious so you look, it might just be you checking them out for style, or admiration. Just because you are looking at guys does not make you bi or bi curious, or gay.
Dont worry about it so much, have you ever noticed how girls check out each other all the time, ( shoes, clothes, hair....)

terbear
July 31st, 2011, 06:51 PM
You may be bi. What's the big deal? Everybody has a right to love whomever they choose.