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factboy01
June 29th, 2011, 01:06 AM
Hello everyone. Well first off I started to really judge myself again lately. Only now it's really self-critical. I recently watched a video that reminded me of my dream to be a male model back when I was 8, 9. Now I saw this model guy and I'm very jealous of him now. To the point, I feel like breaking down. I am so ugly yet wish to be a model.

Lethe
June 29th, 2011, 02:48 AM
Why do you want to be a model? That's the question you should ask yourself. Is it because you think being a model will prove that you are attractive or not? From what you've said, you think you're ugly. Will being a model make you feel less ugly?

I can guarantee you you aren't ugly. Every person is beautiful. You may not believe me, but we are our own worst critics. Take it from an outsider.

Magenta
July 3rd, 2011, 02:44 PM
There is nothing stopping you from modeling. I model. Why? Not because I'm extraordinarily pretty or gorgeous or skinny or anything like that. I model because it's fun and I love it.

Don't let it get you down. Go out with some friends with a camera. Take photos of yourself. Make it fun. Make it something you love. In the end, it doesn't even have to be a career, just a hobby.

Hope this helps. :)

DJZS
July 3rd, 2011, 03:03 PM
I am sure you arent ugly. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, always remember that, and im here if you want to talk.