Never been kissed

[sun.shine]

Hey guys, sooo...

I am 18, just recently turned 18 :), and never been kissed, or had a boyfriend, or even been on a date...

It's not that I haven't been asked out, but I seem to only attract creepy people. figures. haha. I just don't want to date "just anyone" just so I can say I have had a boyfriend, or whatever, that seems so stupid and immature. I am a Christian for the record.

So I was just wondering, what are your first thoughts about an 18 year old girl who hasn't been kissed? Do you automatically wonder if she is ugly? If you found out would it be like a turn-off so to speak?

Just wondering.

Bonus Question: What is the best date you've ever been on?

[BOSS]

Well let me think here for a second. NO if I found out that my gf has never been kissed It wouldn't be a turn off for me. And when I here that a girl has never been on a date or never has had a bf or has never been kissed I don't automatically think she's ugly and to be honest I don't really care how "hot" a girl is just as long as she's sweet and likes to talk and so on.

[Dark_Desires]

everyone is diffrent i have a few mates like that tha havent kissed
anyone besides family and thay are 17 and 15. and i wouldnt
asume someones ugly by them never dating or kissed
most nice guys care about geting to know someone.

[Kuervo]

i didnt get my first kiss till i was 16 1/2 so nothing to feel bad about. but i know some ppl who havent gotten their first kiss either, so guess it cud be normal too. the time will come when tht one guy will come to ur life.

[scuba steve]

Patience. It also doesn't really matter as much since you're a girl, guys will still like you either way :P

[Pancake]

I think it's good that you won't just "date anyone"; it means you have standards. There's nothing wrong with having not been kissed, the right guy and time will come. Believe me, he won't care if you've never been kissed before. Some guys may even find it flattering to be a girls first kiss. It certainly does not make a person ugly.

[kylenike]

with all do respect i would think the girl is a little weird or ugly but theres a great chance im wrong. and the longer you wait the more the guys will just wanna hook up and thats it

[Scarlett93]

I don't think its weird either. Personally I haven't had my first kiss yet and I've never had a boyfriend either and I'm 17... I also think its important not to date anyone, and although no one has ever asked me out I wouldn't say yes to the first guy that comes.

[kylenike]

scarlet no one has ever asked you out or even to a dance

[Scarlett93]

no... I guess that makes me weird XD

[Josh233]

i dont thnk its a turn off and its def good that u dont just date anyone. it'll happen soon enough and it will probably be better then it would have been earlier :)

[Danielle]

Don't worry about it, it just means you have high standards and when you find the right guy I'm sure he'll be flattered you held off on everything just for him. :)

[kylenike]

haha i guess so scarlet (:

[LuckyLuke]

I wouldn't assume that she's ugly and I wouldn't hesitate from dating her just because she hasn't had her first kiss, in fact, I find it kind of cute that she'd be sharing her first kiss with me. I've just recently had my first kiss a few months ago (I'm 17) and I told her that she was my first kiss and she was really, really flattered. And we were both each others first make out :P.

BEST DATE:

I took my girlfriend out to this really nice restaurant that rests on the marina and overlooks the water. She was wearing this beautiful white flowing shawl and elegant shorter kahki short and I was in a blue Lacoste polo and grey shorts. We greeted one another with a hug and whatever she was wearing smelt more beautiful and sexy than anything I'd ever smelt.

We had dinner with some very pleasant conversation and were smiling and laughing throughout the entire thing. She looked so elegant and beautiful, her smile radiated towards me.

We finished dinner and held hands as we walked the boardwalk around the marina. We were laughing and smiling and there was a moment when she wrapped herself around my arm, laughing, and it was as if nothing else in the world mattered.

We continued walking down main street towards a quiet-private road that had a gazebo and petite beach lying at the end. We were talking and holding one another and having a wonderful time.

Once we reached the end of the road she said she wanted to stand on the beach and as we did we could see the sun nearly set and the lit boats sailing near Fire Island resting on the other side. She held my hand and I whispered her name ever so gently, she looked up at me and smiled as I leaned in for a kiss. After one kiss I pulled back gently and saw she was smiling so I went in for another, and another. After about 30 seconds I pulled back again and she smiled and held my hand tighter. We started walking down the same private road, smiling, both radiating on the inside and out and talking as we had before. That was my best date.

[Marteh]

Since im 16 and am in the same situation as you (im not christion though)
It would be a turn on and i would not immediately think you were ugly, i would just think that you are either keeping to yourself or just waiting for the right person. :)

[SomeGuyFromHere]

I haven't either! And I'm 17


I think it's good that you won't just "date anyone"; it means you have standards.

I absolutely agree with this and find it very refreshing to read. :)

[terbear]

you aren't ugly! you're waiting for the right guy is all! I think it's kinda sweet

[Upintheair]

definitely not weird! im 16 and JUST had my first kiss like 2 months ago so dont worry about it! Its a really special thing and not something you should be ashamed of!

Best date:
Well my boyfriend and I (now ex) had been dating for about 3 months and hadnt kissed yet, which all my friends thought was weird! So we went out to dinner to this really romantic restaurant and afterwards we walked down to the lake by my house and layed in the grass by the water. It was about 9:00, so it was late and all the stars were out! We sat there holding hands and laying in the grass for hours and at about 11, he leaned over and kissed me and it was so sweet and really gentle! After that he walked me home and kissed me again :) it was just really really sweet and I dont think I will ever forget it!

[flumeendeavors]

I actually really admire the fact that you dont want to date just any person. I think that's great because it'll save you from a lot of pain in my opinion and i think you'll have better relationships with that mind set.
I absolutely dont immediately think of someone who's never been kissed as ugly because i dont know you! You just have high morals in my mind and i love it! You could be the most beautiful woman on earth and never have been kissed! It's just what your morals and values represent. Keep with it! :)

My best date was when i was with my most recent boyfriend and he taught me how to longboard. I thought it was great. Then we went back to his house and watched movies and talked. I thought that the home-y date was great. :)

[tyler17OKC]

I have never kissed anyone either. The only dates i have had are to school dances, and i don't count them. I'm 17.