Best way to break up with a girl?

[nolongerhere]

I need your help! I have been with this girl for a few months now, she seems really interested in me and I WAS interested in her. But now i want to break it off with her cause I'm bored.

Any advise as to how to tell her or is it just me cause I have never had a relastionship for more than 6 months, ppl say that i have commitment issues (:confused:)! Could that be the problem? *sigh*

[mrbob360]

i dont wanna put you down but thats not very nice for girl to hear im breaking of with you because im bored so it does sound like you have isssues but its normal and just takes time to adjust to having someone to love for a long time ull learn to grow into it as you get older

[Trickster]

Well...honestly i think you should try to rekindle that fun part because couples go threw boring periods so maybe just go do something interesting or spark a very interesting conversation and see how it goes. Dont just break up with her because she isnt making you laugh 24/7 or make you smile so often. Your probably in that comfy stage where its just routine but ya try and find that spark again. If not...Im guessing she feels the same way and breaking up will be mutual but dont give up on it yet. Try everything you can, be extra fun, be random and try to that best friend thing going so you can have fun again. If that fails...you didnt do anything wrong and she didnt either, just wasnt meant to be.

[eoldenavy]

i dont wanna put you down

[Sage]

Don't listen to those guys, you don't need to force yourself to stay in a dull relationship if you sincerely don't want to. As for breaking up with the girl, it really comes down to whether you want to spare her feelings or not. You can be as nice about it as possible, but if aren't firm and make it perfectly clear you're not getting back together at all, then she's going to hound you for ages and ages because you haven't given closure to the matter. If you -are- perfectly clear and blunt about it, though, you will run the risk of hurting her feelings for a while.

Personally, I prefer the blunt approach. If you breaking up with her causes her abnormally long lasting emotional pain, that's her problem, and you were probably better off not going out with such a needy person anyway.

[Dog Desab]

xD Sage is right

[AllThatIsLeft]

Sage is definately not a girl...

Direct approach yes, mean one preferably not.

Unfortunately girls are veryyyyyyy emotional, the smallest pain can be be heartbreaking... I suggest a passive break up like "i don't think this is working, and i think both you and i deserve better. Things just aren't the same...blah blah blah"

don't make it seem her fault, but dont put it on yourself either.

there truly is no good way to break up, but it doesnt have to be harsh.

[Josh233]

just dont be an ass about it