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Roses_Are_Yellow
June 28th, 2011, 03:14 AM
I stopped talking to one of my 'friends', who I've mentioned on VT before, a few days ago. We got into this fight a few months ago, it was about me being happy about something, and she couldn't be happy for me. She was negative, making snippy comments about it. I finnally snapped and yelled at her, we got in an argument, and she told people a totally different story of what happend in the argument. She made her self look so innocent, that I probably seemed like an axe murderer to people. Once school ended, I unfriended her from all the social networks I was on (she had kept trying to text me for a while, and constantly commented on my statuses). It was my way of saying i didn't want to be friends with her any more. Tonight, her mother sent a message to my parents saying some crap that ended with "..we would have at least liked some warning before (my name here) unfriended (her name here)..and blah blah blah." it also said that this so called 'friend' was upset or something I did that. Her mother was pretty hostile in her message. I mean, I expect that sorta thing from a girl who is in high school or younger, but this woman has children for god sakes!

If you read in between the lines of the message, it sounds as though she has low regards towards me, or blames me foe her daughter being upset. My parents really didn't feel like having a conflict with this woman, so they didn't reply. I didn't really see it until now, but her daughter is so much like her mother. And, let's just say, I've never had this much negative feeling towards a former friend in my life....

I guess the apple really doesn't fall far from the tree, huh?

Just wondering, what do you guys think?

CyanideGoodnight
June 28th, 2011, 08:40 PM
It really dosn't. I have an ex friend who's mom is a psychopath that runs around dictating her daughter's life. My ex friend is a psychopath that runs around dictating everyone else's life if she can help it.

Also, my mom apparently enjoys freaking people out, I made this into a hobby of mine and love sneaking up on my friends (all in good humor of course :D )

So, no, the apple does NOT fall far from the tree in my opinion

Roses_Are_Yellow
June 28th, 2011, 09:37 PM
Lol, I love doing that, but for good humor of course. In my case, I have my dads sense of humor. I also have his sarcasm :)


My ex friend lied a lot, and she was pretty dramatic, and everything was a
Ways about her. She was so horrible to my best friend. My best friend is really sweet, so she's well liked by our classmates, she has the grades, and she's friends with the popular kids, so our ex friend always yelled at her for 'being in the way' and 'only being friends with certain people, because of their popularity status.' -which is untrue...

..its my understanding her mother has lied to her about this over the years...

CyanideGoodnight
June 28th, 2011, 11:31 PM
Yup, like I said, apple definatly does NOT fall far from the tree, in a lot of cases. I don't even LIVE with my mother and apparently have a lot of her qualitys and do stuff she did when she was my age. lol

Roses_Are_Yellow
June 29th, 2011, 12:10 AM
Maybe our parents pass it on to our blood? Thats the only thing I can think of. My dad once told me that I pack like my mother. When i go on a a week long trip I have a suit case that's half the size of a regular sized suit case and a small purse... I haven't seen her since I was 6! Wonder heat other similarities I have.... :)

CyanideGoodnight
June 29th, 2011, 10:19 PM
Yeah, it might be, like genetics and stuff. Genetics DO mostly determine what we like/dislike