Do people need to come out when their curious?

[Gleeboy1995]

I'm seeing a lot of people mentioning coming out to friends/family as curious or questioning but I have to ask if you don't what you are why bother. For all you know you may be straight! Then what are you gonna do come out of the hallway? "Mom Dad I have something to tell you....I'M STRAIGHT!" I just think its smarter to wait until you know exactly what you are before putting yourself in the position that many gays/bisexuals have to go through.

[Joshh97]

I agree theres no point until your sure :)

[prob1996]

Great point! I agree. I consider myself bi because I really like guys but everytime I think I'm all into guys, here comes a girl that drives me crazy. I don't plan on telling my parents until I'm 100% sure. I did tell my older brother just cause I needed to talk to someone and he kinda knew something was going on. But he's think I'm gay and just can't admit it yet. IDK :rolleyes: Maybe he's rt, maybe he's not. I can't imagine "coming out" just yet and then to go: ooops, got it all wrong. Too much stress.

[Gleeboy1995]

Exactly. I'm just a really hormonal sexual beast right now who will make out/have sex with anyone I found attractive guy or girl and I really don't want to out myself as anything till I figure what I want. Especially since so far I've only had emotional attachment to girls and can only see myself marrying a girl and see no reason to label myself and while I'm probably bisexual its just easier for me to live my life without worrying about it. I'm an opportunist

[AllThatYouDreamed]

honestly? No. don't. You'll just probably have to come out again anyway.

Coming out once is a bitch.
More than once?...lol. No

[MustangRacer35]

If you're not completely sure, there's no reason to say anything unless you want to tell a few people that you trust.

[TtotheC]

why admit to something you're not sure of ;)