help!

[Tommie]

Theres this girl, who is my best friend, and recently we have been talking constantly, and I grew to like her to an extent that I could potentially see me spending my life with her. She's stunning and is the nicest person you ever meet, and she oviously doesnt like me because im shorter than her, but keeping it from her is killing me, i dont stop thinking about her, and if she flirts with otherboys i just get angry, but if i tell her how i feel, it could potentially ruin what we have. HELP.

[Dark_Desires]

I have been in the same boat before personaly
just do what feels right if u do aproach her
do it with confidence there are always more girls out there
and as i said i have been in the same situation
i asked the girl i liked and we didnt become bf and gf
but we were better friends than ever before

[LuckyLuke]

She "obviously" doesn't like you because you're shorter than her? Really? She's that shallow?


Dude, take a step and tell her how you feel if you think she's going to be receptive. If you really feel she's going to auto-reject, than just continue on until you have the confidence to see that that probably won't happen. THE WORST SHE CAN SAY IS NO. And then what? How will the friendship differ? You'll tell her, "that's cool, hey let's go see Bad Teacher!" (just saw it with my girlfriend last night, oh my gawd, not a date movie... sooo many breasts -.-) and it'll shift the tone of the moment drastically in a matter of seconds. What you'd just said will dissipate and the friendship won't be lost.

So tell her, if she doesn't react kindly then shift the tone of the conversation QUICKLY to something else.

[Tommie]

Not really that shallow, I don't really expect her to have anything less than she wants, She always says stuff like if you were taller id go out with you in a sec and stuff, it's quite... frustrating. Although I will take your advice, I'll postpone it, me and her are going on holiday for 10 days soon, don't want any bitter feelings
:)

[LuckyLuke]

Not really that shallow, I don't really expect her to have anything less than she wants, She always says stuff like if you were taller id go out with you in a sec and stuff, it's quite... frustrating. Although I will take your advice, I'll postpone it, me and her are going on holiday for 10 days soon, don't want any bitter feelings
:)


I'd highly recommend asking her out after the break. Before it'd be too awkward when you returned if you weren't able to meet during.

That being said, why the hell wouldn't she go out with you due to you being shorter? That's wrong in my opinion.

The rest of the earlier posts advice still rings true in regard to asking her and quickly shifting the subject if she doesn't react kindly.