Hello, confusion, PLEASE HELP!!!

[Chris1995]

Hello I am 15 years of age, for the past 3 weeks or so I keep on having conflicting thoughts over my sexuality, I class myself as straight and I have a girlfriend before and I think I am attracted to a girl now, but these feelings are making me feel guility and I (not being offensive) do not wanto be gay 100% I am just really worried about these thoughts, also I have encountered anal play by myself and wondered if this is normal or not?:what: I have stopped now as I used feel extremely guility after every anal play.

Just wondered if you could help me the difference in thoughts, please help, would mean a lot if you can tell me what my problem is:yummy:

[prob1996]

Sexuality can be a confusing thing. I know I'm still trying figure my own out. First off, I wouldn't worry so much about labels (gay, strait, bi, etc.) You're young, why limit you're thinking to be only one way.

The second thing is self acceptence. These thoughts are normal. It's hormones at work. I know I'm dealing with this but with a boy. I like him alot and love being with him but I'm just getting comfortable with the idea of wanting to date him. I've had girlfriends in the past but never felt the way I do with him.

You are who you are and there's nothing wrong with that. It can be stressful but hang in there. Hope this helps!

PM me if you ever need to talk.

[Chris1995]

thanks :) but I do not want to be gay 100% I'm sorry:( but its only the past few weeks I;ve had conflicting thoughts and I'm very worried, it's like its taking over my life

[prob1996]

No offense taken. Try not to worry too much about it. I know easier said then done. It'll probably pass. I think you might be making it harder for yourself to deal with because of the way you feel.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Still too early to decide and labels are just that--labels. Just be "you" the rest will work itself out. Life and puberty are about learning and this is just another step in discovery. If you do something who knows you may not like it and realize you just like girls, or you may never try anything and its just a passing phase. Whichever, just be true to yourself.

[xSebastian]

If you are gay, you are gay. You could just be curious. Hormones do wonders to you.

I was like you. Since 4th grade, I've been bullied and called gay. Since then, I swore on my life I'd be straight. As I've grown these past years, I've found I've become more and more and more (and more) attracted to guys. I started off by saying I was just curious, but my attraction to boys just grew. I'd be lying to myself and everyone else if I said I was attracted to girls.

Right now, I'd say you're just curious. There's nothing wrong with that. I have a friend that was curious, tried it with a guy, and HATED it. I don't know if it was just the guy, or that specific experience, but now he calls him straight. It doesn't matter if you're gay, straight, or bi anyway. It's who you are that counts. Your sexuality does not completely define you.

[APWBD]

there is no problem, every guy wants to try most of these things if not all. u dont have to be gay to be curious. u have one life so try everything u can

[Chris1995]

tyhanks a lot