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Dunce
June 26th, 2011, 03:49 PM
This thread is about a friend of mine, and I'm really worried about her...
Ok I'll start with last year. I met this friend of mine in school last year and we became good friends. One thing I noticed about her is that she was extremely sexually curious and horny. I think she only really became that horny that year, though I'm not quite sure.

So a few months ago she said to me "I'm going to find a 40 year old man for myself" and I thought she was joking. She jokes about weird things. Her best friend knew that she wanted to loose her virginity and agreed to sign her up on some creepy website. So we all thought that this was going to be a one time thing, in fact none of us thought she was going to do it. But she did it, and this was months ago and she's still doing it. She's 17(though she started at 16 which is against the law) and he's 55(I think).

Me and my friends agree that this is disgusting. We've been trying to stop her and make her see sense. But she just can't see it. She says she just can't get enough of sex with him. And she says that she thinks she might be falling in love with him. We don't know what to do :( My friend thinks she's definitely an addict. If we told anyone... she would actually get fucking kicked out. He would loose his job and probably worse. She would never talk to us again. Everyone would know and we would get part of the blame.

If he backed off and left her she'd move onto someone else. She says she's never going to get married, because the tarot cards told her it wouldn't work out. So she's just going to keep finding new men to satisfy her cravings.
She has even asked us countless times to join her, of course he asked first, but she likes the idea.

It's like he's brainwashing her.
I'm really fucking worried about her and I don't know what to do. I'm afraid that this is how the rest of her life will be. She's fucking it up and she just cant see that.

Sage
June 26th, 2011, 04:09 PM
If you really care about her safety and wellbeing, I think you should tell someone. Her being mad at you isn't nearly as bad as her continuing what she's doing.

boonsim
June 26th, 2011, 06:05 PM
This is a sticky situation: you either tell someone, mr pedo gets arrested, and she hates you. Or you keep it quiet, earning her trust but putting her safety at an ultimate risk. If you choose to tell and she starts to snub you, consider the fact that she may not be a quality friend. But please tell someone!

SuperSuraj
June 28th, 2011, 01:02 AM
Thats really disgusting, but i'm not here to judge... you NEED to tell an adult, i doubt the pedo is only having sex with her... there are probably other under age kids involved and he needs to get off the street and into jail where he belongs. Your friend will hate you, and that will suck and it will be hard, but honestly you'd be doing some pretty noble stuff by getting her away from that before it seriously messes up her life