Im Gay... Help meee:(

[elie111]

Hello I am having a big issue in my life . I live in a country where being gay is wrong and if i'll come out i'll be rejected:( .. I HAD some big problems in my life with my friends , family.. i have no friends.. i am alone.. always depressed.. i wish i can live a day happy...:( i tried to suicide 1 time:( i am always in fear. i just can't live like that anymore .. help me:(

[DerBear]

Hate to say this but there is nothing we can do you just need to take it slowly and one day at a time

[BIGDaddy]

Well you need to calm down and try not to kill yourself If you need someone to talk to talk to someone with the similar problem that always helps
Jacob

[biboy96]

This advice is completely a take it or leave it advice.
I myself try not to focus on sexuality, and rather enjoy other aspects of life. If the people around you won't accept your sexuality, then don't talk about it. If you're depressed, try getting some new hobbies. An excample is working out, which releases "happy hormones" that make you feel a little better. Now, I don't know if this would work for you, but it's simply a suggestion.

[boonsim]

Unfortunately, some countries are needlessly homophobic. If I were you, I'd emigrate. But I'm not you, am I? Do what you think is best. Internal conflict really sucks. :(

[Lodan]

I don't want to sound flippant, because of course your situation would not merit such a comment - but I'd say "smile"; appreciate other things in life more than you should perhaps. Whether this be the weather, sport, friends.

[APWBD]

trust me suicide aint the answer, try to to fit in while u can and then when u get older figure things out as u go. i no what it is like to be depressed i have had two friends die in the last 3 months.. one was a good friend. it hurts a lot of people if u hurt urself and y would u want to cut life short live it to the fullest

[Deleted - 2020]

i agree with biboy96, u just to make the most out of what u got. My families anti-gay, most of my friends are also anti-gay, but the people who mattr know tat im gay and love me for it- it tears me up inside knowing tat if i came out to mum or dad they would reject me but i perspevere- look within- it doesn't mattr wat people think of us- i know im different but tat just makes me more unique from the 5.9 billion straight people out there. And thats what gives me the strenght to carry on

[thebgsamuel]

well depends on your age but as soon as you can get away from the country and do not try to suicide again ever death is not a solution it will only make everyone cray and its gona mess up every thing and you should accept who you are im bi and most my friends are homophobic so its hard to talk about it with my friends...

[nolongerhere]

Hello I am having a big issue in my life . I live in a country where being gay is wrong and if i'll come out i'll be rejected:( .. I HAD some big problems in my life with my friends , family.. i have no friends.. i am alone.. always depressed.. i wish i can live a day happy...:( i tried to suicide 1 time:( i am always in fear. i just can't live like that anymore .. help me:(

Oh man! what do you tell someone in a case like this?...........:(............just know that suicide is NEVER the answer and things WILL get better.

Good Luck man

[SWMG]

Well suicide is not the answer, try to do things you like and dont focus on sexuality, try to fit in and enjoy the things you have and when you get the age enough if thimgs are not what you like them to be, you could go somewhere else.

[dan-]

Death is no solution for anything!
I can understand your situation, and you really should find somebody to meet with. A friend who you can make some hobbies with. Maybe you find someone like you online.

What's your age???

[Sogeking]

:arrow:Teen Sexuality

[Tenoramic]

Nothing wrong being gay, don't think negative. U need to surround urself with positive people and things will get better

[zayn]

i feel for u
just keep quiet and all i can do is hope that things get better for u

[Magenta]

Ouch, you're in a really tough position and I feel terrible not knowing a definite way to help you out but I wanted to leave a post just to let you know that you DO have people accepting of you even if it's only here on the internet.

As many have said, suicide is never the answer. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. The depression does go away and you can heal even if it takes time. No one would want to see you kill yourself. Gay or not, you're on this planet and you're here to live your life out as best as you can.

I don't know how old you are so I know moving to a different country can be really tough and/or not even possible right now. But if an option like that gives you a little beacon of hope, think of that. Keep reminding yourself everyday that there are better places and one day you'll be there.

For now, keep your head high and smile. I mean it, literally smile. It's been proven that smiling releases endorphins and serotonin- natural pain killers and "happy feelings", respectively. I've had times where I thought I couldn't smile, forced myself and actually did feel a bit better. Just smile a little bit a day and remind yourself of what you like now and then, when the time comes, you can focus on what you would like in the future.

Good luck!