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Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 12:03 AM
Okay, so my girlfriend dumped me today, and she likes my "friend".. Theyve dated in the past.. After i dated her once..

Hes teasing me about her liking him, constantly, and ive been crying the past 8 hours non stop..

I dont know what too do.. Im really on the verge of ending all of this bullshit..

Ill post the conversation below, it is long but please read it..

αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Fuck bro.
[email protected] says:
hmm
what u gunna yell at me know
really
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
No..
[email protected] says:
k
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
I wanna talk to you..
[email protected] says:
good
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Nvm..
[email protected] says:
sorry
man
im with
my cousin
i dont
want you swearing
thats all
whats up
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Wow i said a swear word..
Your going out with megan right/
??
DONT LIE
Just be honest..
[email protected] says:
no
i am
not
but she likes me
again
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Are you gonna go out with her?
[email protected] says:
i really dont no
im gunna hang out with her on mondayh
and talk
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Wtf.
[email protected] says:
cause i n oyou like her
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Yeah you know last time
[email protected] says:
no
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
And you still dated her.
[email protected] says:
i fucking didnt
i fucking
told you
that
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
So what difference does it make?
[email protected] says:
god dameit
fine u wanna be like that
watch
i will go out with her
cause
u bringign
bak
ol dshit
fuk man
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Omg..
I KNEW IT
I shouldnt have talked to her on the phone with you there
[email protected] says:
why
and she didnt giv eu head
bahahaha
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Cause i knew she would start liking you.
Never said she did.
[email protected] says:

yea u did
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Umm?
No i didnt..
[email protected] says:
ye
ok

αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
...???
Whatever
Are you going out with her?
[email protected] says:
not right know
no
but
she says she likes me
and she wants to hang out with me on monday and go to a forest

αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Fuck
Do what you want
Your not a real friend.
[email protected] says:
k

αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
You always do this too me.
You know how much i fighting like her.
Fucking**
[email protected] says:
no
u like her
pussy
and tits
bahahaha
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Here we go again?
She knows i was kidding..
[email protected] says:
and she didnt show u cuases she likes me
well she didnt like it
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Your gonna do this too me?
[email protected] says:
thats wat she told mr
me
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Your sereously?
[email protected] says:
and i thought u said she did give u a bj
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
I JUST SAID SHE FUCKING DIDNT
And i never said she did..
If you go out with her, thats fucking lowwww
[email protected] says:
not really
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Yes it is.
Everybody thinks it is.
[email protected] says:
ö well
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Why are you doing this too your friend?
[email protected] says:
i aint doing anything yet
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Tell me why
I do so much for you.
And you date my fucking friends.
I dont udnerstand why you cant just stay the fuck away
[email protected] says:
lol
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Its my friends, ive known them forever.
[email protected] says:
they cant stay
away
she came
to my
k
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
THEN TELL HER TO GO AWAY
What kind of friend are you?
[email protected] says:
ur just jelin
fuck
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Youve known me for 3 years and your gonna choose a girl ive known for 7 years over me??
Who youve known for like, 6 months
.??
[email protected] says:
o well
fuck
she
came to me she made up her mind
she dsnt like u shw wants me get over
it
fuck
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
So why would you go to her?
[email protected] says:
i did
didnt
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
You know what loche
If you were in this situation you know i wouldnt do this too you
I wouldnt be teasing you about it.
[email protected] says:
then
shut up about her
and
lets
jsut
talk
fuck
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
No
[email protected] says:
lol
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Because i know your gonna date her again.
[email protected] says:
then
fuck off
and leave us aloone
k i will cause ur not shuting up about it
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
See..
I wouldnt do this too you.
And you know it.
[email protected] says:
lol
and u try to make a promise
with her
lol
she already has one

αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Your fucking rude dude..
[email protected] says:
k
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Why would you do this too me?
[email protected] says:
i dsnt
matter
she is a girl
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Do you have any idea how upset i am right now?
[email protected] says:
there
is so amn
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
And your not making it better.
[email protected] says:
mhm
wedll
she just dsnt
like
u
fuck
man
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Well why are you gonna date her?
Why would you do that too your friend?
[email protected] says:
it dsnt
matter
it s girl
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Loche..
It does matter
You dont know what weve been through
Or what weve talked about..
[email protected] says:
i dont need to no
all i no
is
she like sme
me
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
And then i introduce you to her
[email protected] says:
not you
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Because i trust you
And your my friend
And i never thought you would do this too me
Fuck doing it twice..
[email protected] says:
and why did u try to take are promsie
she wldnt do it
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Buddy
You can fuck right off.
[email protected] says:
k
then
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Dont even bring that up.
[email protected] says:
i wil
pce
adam
im gunna
go out with her
lol
pcve
ass hole
fuck
sometimes
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Im gonna fucking cut myself..
[email protected] says:
k
sshe wont
care
bye
and she is deleteing
u
off of everything
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Your not a friend..
Idk why i trusted you
[email protected] says:
k
bye
then
adam
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Your day will come..
[email protected] says:
lol
k
bye
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Loche
Tell me why your doing this?
[email protected] says:
bye
adam
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
Tell me why.
[email protected] says:
no reason
bye
αdαмcσυят - FUCK!! says:
You just like seeing your friends suffer?
[email protected] says:
o yed
fuck off
gosh

PLEASE Help me.. I cant stop crying.. I really really like this girl.. Ive done soo much for her and im not gonna loose her to this faggot whos just using her for sex..

Im sending her the conversation, and i really hope she wont put me through this..

Can i please have someones advice? I like this girl alot, ive known her all my life and dated her for over 4 years..

Like i said i really cant stop crying, and ive already cut myself..

User Deleted
June 26th, 2011, 12:10 AM
The thing is, if anybody will ever be in a serious relationship with you they will hear you out and understand. If not... maybe things will be better with time but maybe you just have to fine someone with a better personality match.

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 12:14 AM
Its not even that.. I know he'll hurt her, and im looking out for her too.. She may be mean at the time but shes been one of my best friends all my life.. And i dont want this happening to her..

Iris
June 26th, 2011, 12:27 AM
Sometimes there's not much you can do. You're sending her the texts so she knows what she's getting herself into. Maybe just be for her if/when your friend hurts her...You seem like a nice guy, you'll find someone else who deserves your love.

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 12:38 AM
Its soo hard to know whats gonna happen to her.. Hes using her for sex, but we promised eachother we were gonna be eachothers first.. And i dont want her giving that away to some lowlife..

Iris
June 26th, 2011, 12:50 AM
That must be torturous :( I'm so sorry. Maybe she'll come back to her senses. Have you tried talking to her about this? And maybe try talking to your friend in person, that might have a greater effect.

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 12:57 AM
Shes not talking too me back, and hes telling her things now that arent true.. Like apparently i told everyone she gave me head (she didnt) And apparently i cheated on her. Stupid stuff, and he says shes gonna delete me off facebook msn and block my numbers..

Iris
June 26th, 2011, 01:02 AM
Wow you must really care about her if you're willing to put up with all this shit to try and protect her...

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 01:05 AM
I really care about her.. I told her im willing to do anything for her back.. Or to atleast stay away from him.

Iris
June 26th, 2011, 01:11 AM
Sometimes when someone keeps asking you not to do something you want to do it more.

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 01:22 AM
I just dont understand what i did to deserve this, and how she could do this too me.. I cant stop looking at her picture..

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 04:56 AM
Im still extremely unsure and extremely hurt.. Can i get anybody elses word on this??

Twistember
June 26th, 2011, 10:34 AM
Well right now you'll just have to let her go. Soon She'll realize that he's just using her. She'll have to see for herself.

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 11:34 AM
Its hard to watch someone ive known forever too be hurt like that..

Now shes also saying she never wants to talk too me, and she deleted and blocked me off of everything.. Idk what too do.. Im out of tears and ive cut myself already

Twistember
June 26th, 2011, 12:08 PM
Like I said, she'll just have to see it for herself. Then she'll realize that she was wrong. It'll be painful, but you just have to do it.

Heisen8erg
June 26th, 2011, 02:39 PM
Alright. Thanks to everyone, rep too you all :)