friends or no?

[morbidmonkey]

this is kinda a long story if i go into details but i'll keep it short
i always try to do things for my friends. now i've been having some problems that doesnt really concern them. they dont really understand my family "situation" so i've kinda broken away from them and i hang out with this other chick but we still hang out from time to time. sometimes i would get bitchy and i keep telling them [well actually its just a her] that i have some problems that i need to fix, that's why i act withdrawn sometimes. i also do self injury... so one day i was asking her what she thought about this poser chick [its her friend too]. so she was like "why is this so serious to u? its not like ur not a poser" so in my mind i'm like "da fuck?" so i ask her why she thinks that. she was like "cuz ur not acting like urself and u act all emoish" OBVIOUSLY she's a stereotype. so this brings me to the question: do u think that because u act sad most of the time ur a poser? [note: i DO NOT consider myself to be emo or scene or any of those... just myself]

[CyanideGoodnight]

Nope. I believe that as long as you are acting the way YOU are, your not a poser. I get the same tipes of comments/remarks to me, just because when I'm really upset I go full out with the dark makeup and what not. I hate stereotypes, I just consider me myself aswell, and therefore ignore these comments.

[morbidmonkey]

i do act the way i am, just sadder sometimes. GOD I FAWKING HATE HER

[CyanideGoodnight]

Did ya try explaining that to her? Maybe she's just ignorant to your situation, Anyway, as I said before, just ignore people who say stuff like that, it's much less energy consuming then hating someone

[morbidmonkey]

i try to explain it to her but its gets me angry and she's so fawking ignorant...i guess i will try again....thxx fot the help

[CyanideGoodnight]

mhm sure no problem