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Theone15
June 25th, 2011, 05:47 PM
So theirs this girl who I love but she is already dating someone she loves, I know this because every Friday she walks the same way home as me and we talk, so back on point, I'm angry at myself for loving her even though she has someone and I'm happy for her because she has someone, what should I do

P.S she knows I have feelings for her

Contra
June 25th, 2011, 05:56 PM
Unfortunately there's nothing you can do. You shouldn't be angry at yourself because you can't really choose the people you love, it's not your fault. For now, you just have to wait until, eventually, she breaks up with that other person and then perhaps you'll have a chance with her.

Theone15
June 25th, 2011, 06:00 PM
Thanks for the helping words and the quick reply, you're right but I don't want to wait for them to break because it feels wrong waiting for a sad day for them

Contra
June 25th, 2011, 06:06 PM
You're welcome, that's what I'm here for. :)
I see your point. That way I would advise you to move on, if waiting for that makes you feel bad. Unless you can get pass that, I mean, you do like her, in a way, she breaking up with him will be good. This sounds awful, but it's true.

Theone15
June 25th, 2011, 06:10 PM
Moving on will be painful for me, waiting for her to break up makes me feel bad but being her friend makes me feel happy and my worries fade away, I pick number 3

Contra
June 25th, 2011, 06:11 PM
Yeah, I think it's the best one too, just support her, be there for her and I'm sure your friendship will keep your mind off of this matter.

Theone15
June 25th, 2011, 06:18 PM
Again thanks for the help :)