is it ok healthwise if your boyfriend rubs inside panties without washing hands?

[bethany2shop]

my boyfriend does it a lot randomly like on the bus when nobody was there and at our picnic so is it unhealthy for me if he did not soap his hands? thanks:confused:

[mbishop94479]

First off, I think it's weird that he'd do it in public even though there's no one else there.

I don't think it matters. With my ex, I didn't wash my hands right before and nothing happened. If it bothers you, then you could ask him to wash his hands prior to fingering you. But don't use hand sanitizer. Soap and water. If he can't, then just wash yourself like that night.

[Boxerbriefs96]

First off, I think it's weird that he'd do it in public even though there's no one else there.

I don't think it matters. With my ex, I didn't wash my hands right before and nothing happened. If it bothers you, then you could ask him to wash his hands prior to fingering you. But don't use hand sanitizer. Soap and water. If he can't, then just wash yourself like that night.

I agree with everything he said. If you are worried or dont like that his hands are not washed, just tell him to.

[bethany2shop]

First off, I think it's weird that he'd do it in public even though there's no one else there.

I don't think it matters. With my ex, I didn't wash my hands right before and nothing happened. If it bothers you, then you could ask him to wash his hands prior to fingering you. But don't use hand sanitizer. Soap and water. If he can't, then just wash yourself like that night.

cool thats a nice idea, wash just after he rubs :)
hes like exhibitionist and makesout in public a lot.

I agree with everything he said. If you are worried or dont like that his hands are not washed, just tell him to.

not easy to say but maybe.

[Alice]

Unless his hands are covered in grease from working on a car, you should be fine

[iRockStarFX]

First of all that's disgusting, and he has no respect for you! But anyways it shouldn't.

[Thanatos]

First of all that's disgusting, and he has no respect for you! But anyways it shouldn't.

I wouldnt go saying that, some people have a fetish for voyeurism. Just because you don't like something doesnt make it instantly disgusting.

Anyways like everyone said it shouldnt be a problem unless his hands are extremely dirty.

[mbishop94479]

Do you like him fingering you in public?

[bethany2shop]

Unless his hands are covered in grease from working on a car, you should be fine

its cool then =a

First of all that's disgusting, and he has no respect for you! But anyways it shouldn't.

he likes me =a

I wouldnt go saying that, some people have a fetish for voyeurism. Just because you don't like something doesnt make it instantly disgusting.

Anyways like everyone said it shouldnt be a problem unless his hands are extremely dirty.

seems clean =a

Do you like him fingering you in public?

yes unless he tries more than one finger, only one finger is good. but mostly boobz kissing i prefer. and makes sure nobody sees. the beach is easy cos they probably think he is just applying my lotion =a

[THE COMEDIAN]

I wouldn't say its not sanitary unless he's been touching greasy things like food or if he touched like trash or something and I don't see anything wrong with on a bus it's just a bus is full of nasty germs that u might want to keep away from your vagina just saying.

[bethany2shop]

I wouldn't say its not sanitary unless he's been touching greasy things like food or if he touched like trash or something and I don't see anything wrong with on a bus it's just a bus is full of nasty germs that u might want to keep away from your vagina just saying.

i keep clean like never sit right on the seat mostly on his knee and even keep fresh panties in my bag. at least i catch no colds ever so i guess im good.

[THE COMEDIAN]

i keep clean like never sit right on the seat mostly on his knee and even keep fresh panties in my bag. at least i catch no colds ever so i guess im good.

I'd say a cold is the least of ur worries

[mbishop94479]

I'd say a cold is the least of ur worries

This is true.

[madjoker525]

its fine, like mentioned if ur worried just wash good when u shower

[bethany2shop]

its fine, like mentioned if ur worried just wash good when u shower

I bath actually but for sure i am 100% clean/perfectionist =a

[bethany2shop]

I'd say a cold is the least of ur worries

cannot get STDs, he only ever took his pants off with me.

[Timmy93]

Um well you can get like an infection or like bacteria can get down there because the dirt on his hands can get inside.

[bethany2shop]

Um well you can get like an infection or like bacteria can get down there because the dirt on his hands can get inside.

Oh yep true. i wear white panties so at least the dirt will show and so far none.

[mbishop94479]

Just have him wash his hands if you're concerned. Or have him finger you not in public.

[bethany2shop]

Just have him wash his hands if you're concerned. Or have him finger you not in public.

I dont like saying NO about things to do with love, but ok :(
He likes me in public cos risks i guess :cool:

[TheBigUnit]

my boyfriend does it a lot randomly like on the bus when nobody was there and at our picnic so is it unhealthy for me if he did not soap his hands? thanks:confused:

Tell him to be careful lol idk