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fightnight71
June 25th, 2011, 03:48 AM
Hey guys i really am hoping you guys and girls could help me out. There is this girl i have known since i was 8 years old. I my opinion she is the prettiest girl i have ever seen and has a great personality which is what really counts. In 8th grade we both had a crush on each other but were to shy to say anything. I ended up going to private school because of a scholarship and she went to our public school but we still were only five min apart. We talked for a while but never really hung out til my junior year. I started realizing i really like this girl still. So fast forward to senior year i ask her to my prom. The whole time she wouldn't dance with me. I don't know why but she didn't. I was still a gentleman and sat with her the whole time but she was just on her phone texting. Of course it hurt but i still sat with her because i'm a gentleman and wasn't going to leave her alone. She didn't ask me to her prom which i hoped but that's her decision. Well anyway on facebook i finally uploaded the pics from our prom and she untagged herself in everyone. I always text her first and asked a question on here about that and got an answer that girls always want a guy to text first. I can understand that but why is she always texting my besfriend who she barely knows first? I'm sorry if i'm rambling but yo have no idea how much i like her. I've ignored texting her for a week hoping she would text me but nothing. I hate judging myself but i'm really not a bad looking guy and i'm really nice and caring and i would put her before myself. One of my friends saidd just move on which i don't know if i could because there will always be a place in my heart for her. What do you guys and girls think about the situation?

Contra
June 25th, 2011, 11:51 AM
I'm very sorry, but I don't think she likes you that way. The things that made me think that were the prom scenes, I mean, she wouldn't dance with you and she untagged herself from all the pics? I don't know her at all but that was a very rude thing to do to a nice guy like you (which I think you are from what I can see), it looks like she's ashamed of you.
I think you should stick to being friends unless you notice some signal from her. I know it will be hard but you've got to try and go out with a girl that actually likes you back that way.

Good luck :)

Eagle63
June 25th, 2011, 02:07 PM
She may like you and be ashamed of it....
or...
She may not like you and only went to prom with you out of sympathy.

I've been there. It's one of those two.

mrbob360
June 25th, 2011, 02:54 PM
i dont wanna sound nasty here but there aint no nicer way of putting this she doesn't like you in the same way that you like her and you cant force her to which is what it sounds like your doing ull just have to accept that she doesnt love you and move on and find someone that will

Kayden
June 25th, 2011, 11:54 PM
Yeah, unfortunately I'm going to have to say she dosent like you. You may think "deep down she likes me" but from my personal experience It's best to move onto someone else.