Am I still a virgin?

[vincent_jamez]

I've had sex with another guy, (he recieved). And I wasn't sure if I can still say I'm a virgin? Some say I'm not and others disagree & say, to loose your virginity you have to have vaginal sex.

[Aless1225]

I heard in health class that any kind of sex being either anal, oral, or vaginal means you are not a virgin anymore

[JohnFitz]

Anal SEX is a form of SEX. Ur not a virgin.

[vincent_jamez]

I heard in health class that any kind of sex being either anal, oral, or vaginal means you are not a virgin anymore

lol that's funny. My health teacher told me the opposite -___-

[JohnFitz]

lol that's funny. My health teacher told me the opposite -___-

ur health teach is dumb haha

[thebassguy]

Being a virgin means you are sexually pure. Having gay sex would not be considered "pure"

[mrbob360]

no dude im sorry to say you have lost ur virginity have penertrating sex such as anal or vaginal giving or recieving means you have lost your virginity giving or erecieveing oral doesnt NOT mean you have lost ur virginity if your still unsure google the meaning of virginity.

[tyler007]

I think that you have, you did the penetrating , to a guy. Now i also think that until you "receive" you can keep your “bottom” virginity.
I know its unpopular thought, but I would still consider you a virgin with girls, cause it’s a bit different with them. :)

[APWBD]

ur not a virgin

[BigG]

When you engage in penetration of a vagina or anus for the first time you've lost your virginity-BigG PM me If u want to chat any questions will be answered honestly.

[Bimmerhead]

Yeah anything to do with penetration means your not a virgin as others have said. But in the end I suppose its really up to you lol. If you dont feel you are then your not! No one will know anyway lol

[Giles]

Virginity is mostly a mental thing, for gay guys anyway, to the extent that if you want to be a virgin and you haven't given and received then you can probably say that you are. It's moreso what you think you are though, if you think you're a virgin then you are, if not then you're not. Different people have different opinions and nobody is right or wrong.

I, for example, believe that until you've been on the receiving end of anal sex you're still a virgin. So in your position I'd still be a virgin because I hadn't been penetrated, but again, that's just my opinion and everyone thinks differently.

[Donkey]

By definition, you are not a virgin. But society really has to get this virginity thing out of its head anyway; what does it matter whether or not you have done the most natural thing that a human being can do?

[DoctorWho]

Yes you have lost it those guys are dumb

[salty]

you're not a virgin

[death_to_my_heart]

yea u lost ur v-card

[Kujiro]

I am beginning to really wonder if males has this thing called virginity.
By actual terms, virginity is the breaking of the hymen of the female's vagina.
But guys dont really have a hymen to break right? (not considering anal sex ) *ponders*.

Hence is virginity classified as sexual purity? or is virginity something thats classified only to females whom has not had the hymen torn.

I have heard this article about the guy who is married to his wife had sex for years, never manage to get a child, a visit to the doctor, the doctor says shes a virgin, as her hymen is not torn. as his penis was alittle too... yes short.

Hence it truely depends how you want to classify virginity.
But i believe in the modern defination is having sex = losing your virginity.
If you are going by that defination, then yes you have lost it.
If you are going by medical terms, you dont really have a virginity to lose.

[Starbuck]

To lose your virginity you need to penetrate, whether it be a girl or a boy. So if you have penetrated the boy you had sex with, then I would say you are no longer a virgin.

[VamosToro]

You have lost your virginity. You had sex.

[VamosToro]

I am beginning to really wonder if males has this thing called virginity.
By actual terms, virginity is the breaking of the hymen of the female's vagina.
But guys dont really have a hymen to break right? (not considering anal sex ) *ponders*.

Hence is virginity classified as sexual purity? or is virginity something thats classified only to females whom has not had the hymen torn.

I have heard this article about the guy who is married to his wife had sex for years, never manage to get a child, a visit to the doctor, the doctor says shes a virgin, as her hymen is not torn. as his penis was alittle too... yes short.

Hence it truely depends how you want to classify virginity.
But i believe in the modern defination is having sex = losing your virginity.
If you are going by that defination, then yes you have lost it.
If you are going by medical terms, you dont really have a virginity to lose.

That's a good point though. Man, you have some of the most interesting posts.

[Kujiro]

That's a good point though. Man, you have some of the most interesting posts.

Thank you VamosToro, Its just alittle food for though.

[IanMilo]

For me, yes you are not a virgin. But it's different to everybody, it depends on what YOU think being a virgin is. If you feel like you are a virgin then that's what you are. But when someone asks make sure they know that you HAVE done stuff, just that in your opinion it's not losing virginity.

[Anthony115]

you have lost your virginity

[Santiago22]

If you had sex, then ur not a virgin. Plain and simple.:)

[Funpartyboy97]

the definition of virgin is to have not had sex. you had sex so your not a virgin :/

[Willy94]

Yep you lost it

[kingpin16]

If u have sex whether it be with a guy or girl, anal or vaginal u r not a virgin so congrats ur not a virgin

[Electra Heart]

Yes... to a guy anyway, I would say your a straight virgin? lol

[Jonathan16]

I am beginning to really wonder if males has this thing called virginity.
By actual terms, virginity is the breaking of the hymen of the female's vagina.
But guys dont really have a hymen to break right? (not considering anal sex ) *ponders*.

Hence is virginity classified as sexual purity? or is virginity something thats classified only to females whom has not had the hymen torn.

I have heard this article about the guy who is married to his wife had sex for years, never manage to get a child, a visit to the doctor, the doctor says shes a virgin, as her hymen is not torn. as his penis was alittle too... yes short.

Hence it truely depends how you want to classify virginity.
But i believe in the modern defination is having sex = losing your virginity.
If you are going by that defination, then yes you have lost it.
If you are going by medical terms, you dont really have a virginity to lose.

would like if there was a like button

[acurasrock]

Nope, no more virginity for you!!!! Congrats.

[TopGear]

Bumped?

[acurasrock]

It was under 2 months, so it was bumped within the timeframe, sall good!

[Trinity_15]

Being a virgin means you are sexually pure. Having gay sex would not be considered "pure"

who cares about purity its the 21st century

yes you had sex therefore are no longer a virgin,

[OnlyOneChance]

Definition of virginity: The state of never having had sexual intercourse: "he lost his virginity in college".

So, oral, is fine... But anal, or vaginal, means that you lost your
Virginity.

[White Stocking Cap]

Pretty much, you dropped your V-Card in his ass. Congrats bro, you've joined the elite club.

Thank god that Oral doesn't count. I'd be in the club too. :P

[tardis20]

You're not a virgin. Anal or vaginal sex in my books is sex. If you're thrusting, you're not a virgin.

[aero87dude]

Dude technically you have lost ur virginity, but that is something that only you will have to know. You don't have to run around yelling it to the world. There are worse things in life than giving your V-card to someone :) You'll be ok bro!

[PoloKid]

Not a Virgin

[canadaski]

No, I'll have to say you lost your virginity. Virginity is a somewhat dated term, it can no longer be linked to just one act as it was 500 years ago.

[lausonfarleyii]

some people say you arent a virgin if you jacked off

do you think you are a virgin if you jack off

this one girl i know she was riding a horse and she popped?

is she still a virgin?

for a girl what if you have anal sex are you still a virgin

are you still a virgin if you have sex but dont climax

[supreme]

I am beginning to really wonder if males has this thing called virginity.
By actual terms, virginity is the breaking of the hymen of the female's vagina.
But guys dont really have a hymen to break right? (not considering anal sex ) *ponders*.

Hence is virginity classified as sexual purity? or is virginity something thats classified only to females whom has not had the hymen torn.

I have heard this article about the guy who is married to his wife had sex for years, never manage to get a child, a visit to the doctor, the doctor says shes a virgin, as her hymen is not torn. as his penis was alittle too... yes short.

Hence it truely depends how you want to classify virginity.
But i believe in the modern defination is having sex = losing your virginity.
If you are going by that defination, then yes you have lost it.
If you are going by medical terms, you dont really have a virginity to lose.

always have a good post.

[Berny94]

youre not!!! you had sex! in this case you gave! but ur not a virgin anymore

[JFDA]

I think you are not virgin anymore when you penetrate or are penetrated, so Id say you are not virgin anymore when you try anal, vaginal. I dont think oral takes your virg

[rpd453]

well you can be a "virgin" to many things. You can be a virgin to anal sex, oral sex, or anything like that. So technically, youve lost your virginity to having sex eith a guy, but not virginity to have anal penetration on urself. Its complicated

[Starlight Blaze]

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I know its unpopular thought, but I would still consider you a virgin with girls, cause it’s a bit different with them. :)

this is an interesting thought...cause I'm still waiting for my "first kiss" though I have kissed a girl before.
anyway to OP: yh I would say you lost it
I mean if you could only lose it by vaginal sex I'd be a virgin my entire life and that doesn't sound right XD
nah it's at least vaginal with a girl and anal with a guy, and then you can build your own belief on virginity off of that

[Donkey]

Please don't post in old threads. :locked: