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Honey_Honey
June 24th, 2011, 05:22 PM
Hey,

I'm bi curious hence why I didnt name the post "coming out". At the moment I'm just interested in other girls, I've never really experimented with other girls although it something that definitely intrigues me. I would have just let myself be bi curious until one of my best friends turned around the other day and said she might be bi.

I hate how she can have the freedom to talk about her sexuality while I can't because I don't want to seem like I'm, "copying her". I've also been in discussions with other people who know and although they accept and are okay with her possible sexuality they kept saying how they might find it awkward etc.

Any advice about what I should do? I thought about telling just the one girl who told me she might be bi as she's really laid back but I wouldnt know how to tell her!

CyanideGoodnight
June 24th, 2011, 05:40 PM
If your friends with her, just tell her, Just causually bring up the subject and blurt it out while you two are alone, that's what I did with my bestfriend who's gay. He was perfectly fine with it, after a minute of it sinking in.

Unlucky_Leprechaun
June 26th, 2011, 01:50 AM
I think when your ready to do it will just be part of a natural conversation. No need to get all worked up about it and say something stupid that you really didn't want to say but felt compelled to because of what she did... just relax and when your comfortable you will tell her how you truly feel.