Don't want a GirlFriend? [Normal?]

[Wildcatjonah]

I'm 15 years old, I have only had a few GirlFriends :( I love girls (English girls) I love to watch them, I like their features and all that stuff. I watch porn and masturbate often (not daily but..) I know I'm not gay, but for some odd reason I'm not into the while girlfriend boyfriend thing.

I see other people but can't put myself in that situation all lovey Dovey... I also have a fear that I wouldnt do it right. I never talk to girls and try to stay away from them at all possible.

Weird part: When I'm with friends or family I dont see often I try to act like i am all into girls and force myself to go around them to look cool or brave.

Is this normal???

[LuckyLuke]

TOTALLY normal. I was going through the same exact thing as you.

I'm 17 and I'm dating my first real "girlfriend" and I'd always thought prior to her, "I'm not the lovey-dovey guy... this isn't going to work". But there's just certain people that you meet that make your heart pounce, chest heat, legs weaken, and you want nothing more than to hold them until the sun goes down and you two fall asleep.

You'll know when you meet that special girl... a lot of your friends walking around are probably acting that way for all the wrong reasons (sex) and don't truly like the person for who she is.

As for the friends/family thing, TOTALLY normal. It's a natural response because you want them to accept you and perhaps you don't want them to think you're gay (although there's absolutely nothing wrong with being gay).

Good luck and be patient, you'll know.

[wyatt]

Don't worry about it. Your totally normal. I love girls too, and I am dating too though, but i know your POV. It's normal to like girls but not want to be all lovey-dovey and such things. I was the same way, its all about finding the right person, and I'll be 100% honest, there's about a 1 in 5-Zillion chance you will find the right girl at 15. Next part: I understand the fear. When the right one comes along, you **WILL** know what to do, you will know what to do and they will accept it, that's love. Accepting mistakes and faults, there's no wrong way to love. Being shy is normal too, I was the same way for the *longest* time. Next: It's NOT weird to do that, it's natural for humans to do that kind of thing, if you ever dip into social-psychology you will see, and worrying about these things is normal too. I hope you understand you're normal, best wishes.
-Wyatt

[Wildcatjonah]

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Thanks Guys!

It's werid, I can talk to them over text or phone normal just not I'm person :( guessing that's normal too?

[LuckyLuke]

Thanks Guys!

It's werid, I can talk to them over text or phone normal just not I'm person :( guessing that's normal too?

To girls? Very normal, it's likely because you're shy/nervous. Luckily I never had too much of a problem with this (probably a little bit of the opposite, I'm very obnoxious sometimes).

[Sage]

Few people will tell you this, kiddo, but your mindset towards relationships is actually a lot healthier than everyone else's. Enjoy being single. I wouldn't say your feelings are that common, but don't worry about it.

[User Deleted]

Nor am I man, its just a rediculous modern notion and many people share this view.

[Jess]

so normal, as everyone else said

I don't really want a boyfriend

[Kayden]

Very normal :)

and the not talking to them thing is probley because you shy, which is also very normal aswell.

[Joe410ish]

Completely normal... sometimes it happens cause you havent meet the "right" one but when you do it'll all go out the window believe me ;)