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CyanideGoodnight
June 23rd, 2011, 08:24 PM
Well, I've been questioning my sexuality since I fell in love with my best friend a few months ago, and I want to tell my parental units that I'm bi-curious, But have NO freakin clue how. I can't exactly just go out there and blurt it out. How did you do it, and how did your parents react to the news? Thanks

Gleeboy1995
June 23rd, 2011, 09:51 PM
Well if you're bicurious that means you're undecided and could easily discover that you're bi/lesbian/or straight. No need to have yourself labeled already by prematurely coming out to your parents. Wait until you're certain that you know what you are.

CyanideGoodnight
June 23rd, 2011, 09:59 PM
Yeah your right I just hate waiting, and withthis I just want to get it off my chest cuz It's been bothering me for a while now, you know? I guess I'll wait though. Thank you!

Black Eight
June 23rd, 2011, 10:04 PM
Yeah, if you're just curious then tell them that or don't tell them anything at all. But if you decide that you're gay or bisexual, tell the parent you're more comfortable with and decide if you want to have a serious talk about it or just slip it into a casual conversation. I'm bisexual and just told my parents and they were cool with it.

prob1996
June 23rd, 2011, 10:20 PM
I agree with Carson and find the parent your most comfortable with. I haven't told my parents yet but I told my older brother. He kinda knew something was going on with me & my friend Mikey and I slipped into regular conversation. I was pretty scared and he was just really cool about it.

CyanideGoodnight
June 24th, 2011, 10:47 AM
Hmm yeah, I think I will, I'm just afraid of em spazzing which would get annoying.

User Deleted
June 24th, 2011, 10:53 AM
But if you ever feel you need to tell your parents something, if they have half a heart they will still love you because you are still family. Just don't worry too much about it. And if you are not ready that's fine too, sometimes people just need to have a little solitude ;)