Am I Gay ?

[Capman]

It question asked by a lot of Members

First let me introduce Myself

I am A.Z 16 years old from Algeria I've always been confused either I am gay or Straight or Bi.My whole childhood I raised in girl house (Mom and 3 sisters) My father had job so occasionally I was playing with him i didn't have male friend at age of 5 or 6 like other boys i used to hang out with my sister i didn't used to do outdoor activities or male activities in young age I used to wear Dress but i hated when that i grew older

i had friend but only two when i was 8 we didn't used to hang out much I never liked football and i used to draw Beautiful female (I am really good drawer) i always had interesting in English and arts......etc from other Feminine stuff but now i am age 16 when i involved in Harsh game with my male friend i kind like it (not in sexual way) they couldn't drop me into ground i like arm wrestling thing because i always beat them they really admire my strength I like it a lot i developed some love to sport I always want to hang out with the other boys but i don't know

at age of 14 i developed curiosity to gay thing one day i pumped to gay porn which i felt really weird because homosexuality isn't part of our Muslim culture so i watched it everyday and i did search about what gay means also at age of 14 i had sexual abuse by same gender sex which left me devastating (my parent don't know) Now i am having Kind gay fantasize but i don't wanna to be gay cause i always Been attracted to girl when i was young

My life is so complicated guys I live in different culture my religious is Islam and doesn't except homosexual if i am gay i want to change All i know it god test and i need to go throw of it

I am sincerely Honest with you hope to reply soon

Merged, please don't double post. I'm you want to add something, please use the edit buttons. ~georgiamay.

[mbishop94479]

If you're sexually attracted to other guys, then you're gay. Nothing you can do. You can't change it.

[Capman]

Well i don't know i am confused i watching mu first straight porn i guess when i was 9 (i know it was very young age) I got boner on that Porn but i develop some attraction to same sex some There is article mentioned way out

Guys i don't leave in country accepts gays i leave in country strict to religion there article for way out

http://www.troubledwith.com/ParentingTeens/A000000325.cfm?topic=parenting%20teens%3a%20homosexuality

[mbishop94479]

Ignore porn. Are you sexually attracted to guys? Think about the answer to that.

And there is no way out from being gay. If you're gay, that's it. No amount of religion can change that. Move out of the country you live in. Being gay is not a choice. It can't be changed.

[Capman]

Moving out of country Are you crazy I don't have money and I am really religious So i am going to say like this all my life

And i can't prove i am st8 you guys have chance to do sex while i had to wait until i get married it rules what if i didn't have erection at my weeding night (I would really like to marry and have children

Merged, please don't double post. ~georgiamay.

[mbishop94479]

I meant move out later in life.

And you have no choice? Even the males get their marriage arranged at X age in Algeria?

[check]

I have not posted in a while..... but this is outrageous.... This guy is crushing you with this information (no offense at all)

If you are gay you can defiantly turn straight especially when you are a teenager!!! Teens don't know what there sexuality is yet. You could think your gay one day and straight the other...that's why there are so many "am I gay" posts on this forum!!You finally decide after puberty what your sexuality is... but that is subject change (although it is rare)

I'm not making this up. when I was 14 I was attracted to one of my male friends... I was pretty much in love with him. I loved his personality and his body. I was convinced that I was gay. But two years later I'm not attracted to him anymore. and I have a girl friend whom I am attracted to.... Teens sexualities are changing. when you think you are gay as a teen its called curiosity.

That is why it is so bad to label yourself as "gay" when you are still a teen. When your a teen don't accept that your gay right away. If you want to change most of the time you can. When teens label themselves as gay they think it is irreversible, then they stay gay for the rest of their life, because they didn't know when the easiest time to change was. But when a teen thinks they're gay, but they don't label themselves as gay, they can still change and they are the ones who usually come out straight.

Don't label yourself as gay as a teen. wait till your an adult. because your hormones are constantly changing your sexuality when your in puberty. That's why you can only confirm your sexuality when your an adult.

do you get what I'm saying?

[Capman]

I have not posted in a while..... but this is outrageous.... This guy is crushing you with this information (no offense at all)

If you are gay you can defiantly turn straight especially when you are a teenager!!! Teens don't know what there sexuality is yet. You could think your gay one day and straight the other...that's why there are so many "am I gay" posts on this forum!!You finally decide after puberty what your sexuality is... but that is subject change (although it is rare)

I'm not making this up. when I was 14 I was attracted to one of my male friends... I was pretty much in love with him. I loved his personality and his body. I was convinced that I was gay. But two years later I'm not attracted to him anymore. and I have a girl friend whom I am attracted to.... Teens sexualities are changing. when you think you are gay as a teen its called curiosity.

That is why it is so bad to label yourself as "gay" when you are still a teen. When your a teen don't accept that your gay right away. If you want to change most of the time you can. When teens label themselves as gay they think it is irreversible, then they stay gay for the rest of their life, because they didn't know when the easiest time to change was. But when a teen thinks they're gay, but they don't label themselves as gay, they can still change and they are the ones who usually come out straight.

Don't label yourself as gay as a teen. wait till your an adult. because your hormones are constantly changing your sexuality when your in puberty. That's why you can only confirm your sexuality when your an adult.

do you get what I'm saying?

I am crying In my heart reading this post I was going to loss hope The only thing i have to do is consider myself as man I am man which i accept my self as man and i am sure i am straight I need to go out do guy stuff enjoy my life have girlfriend (which i really want to fall in love )

I meant move out later in life.

And you have no choice? Even the males get their marriage arranged at X age in Algeria?

We don't live in 20 century No you could get girlfriend go out on date with her with out sex or touching

Merged. Please don't double post. ~georgiamay.

[iangillan]

I agree with Check,you are too young,to be sure.I think it's just curiosity.Rage of the hormones.

[RJGarrett]

Capman, I have the identical story. Christianity and my family don't believe homosexuality is right. And because they raised me neither do I. I was taking advantage of a guy older than when I was about 7 or 8. I faced severe bullying because u wasn't always like other guys cause u wasn't always athletic but more artistic (which I've learned is ok). I think check is so right. Me and you hav the power to control our own destiny just because we feel a certain way now doesn't mean that's how we are gonna feel forever. I thank you so much for telling me your story.

[mbishop94479]

The feelings probably are hormones. But if you pass out of teenage years and are still attracted sexually to other guys, you are gay. Despite what all really religious people say, including the people in your country and RJGarrett, it cannot be changed and it is not a sin. There's nothing you can do.

[georgiamay]

:arrow: Teen Sexuality.

[Capman]

Thank you so much guys Now i am relieved

Why god Consider gay sin while he is reason of it do you think it test if choose gay way means we not believer and if we been Patient and pray to god definitely god will help us

[User Deleted]

Weather you are it is your choice, but in the end, its okay to be gay (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3j4t185wl-0).

[Voodoo]

If you're sexually attracted to other guys, then you're gay. Nothing you can do. You can't change it.

You're not always gay. You can be Bi or just be attracted to guys. I have friends who are straight but are attracted to guys. They would never do anything sexual to them, but they like checking them out. I'm attracted to them also, I'm not gay.

[check]

Why god Consider gay sin while he is reason of it do you think it test if choose gay way means we not believer and if we been Patient and pray to god definitely god will help us
After this I will never bring religion into anything unless it is asked

Just one more thing
People of your religion will not hate you if you are gay.
I learned this in school (i'm not trying to bring religion into this, I'm just making a point)

It is not a sin to be gay, a gay person is not bad, The only reason why the church is against homosexuals is because they are sexually active. it is wrong to be sexually active as a homosexual because they are not married. They don't let homosexual people get married because that would deplete the definition of marriage ....that's what they say

Religous people don't think gay people are bad, they think it is a sin to be sexually active without marraige

[Lil Ill]

I think before you classify yourself you need to understand that you are still young, it is ok to question who and what you are. Don't call yourself something this early in life, there are stages that make us wonder who and what we like. Once you go thought that stage then you will know. There are times girls just get on my bad side and I can't stand to be around them, god willing you will be who you are supposed to be.

[Allbutanillusion]

You're not always gay. You can be Bi or just be attracted to guys. I have friends who are straight but are attracted to guys. They would never do anything sexual to them, but they like checking them out. I'm attracted to them also, I'm not gay.


I would agree with this partly, I think we are so quick to label people and call them gay, or straight based on a few traits.

I think, in general, looking at other guys does not make you gay and I have known plenty of straight guys who do "check out"/ size up other guys , it really is not a big deal. Based on my observation/ experiences , most, guys between the ages of 14 - 22 do "check out" other guys.


However if your attraction is more sexual and you find yourself being aroused by guys , then yes, you are gay.

[mrbigred]

U could just be curious

[sieg]

If you want to fall in love with a girlfriend, then you are probably straight. And being forced into having sex with someone of the same gender doesn't make you gay. Also, liking feminime things just means you like feminime things, nothing more.

[Fiction]

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