why do people lie about sex?

[JohnFitz]

I see so many people on here stating they had sex when they were like 12 and such and it is very very obvious they lie about it. I'm a virgin I'm not going to lie. I don't get why people do that. Why do they do it?

[ALL4]

I have no clue... They just wanna try n act all hard when there hiding behind a computer....no point in it....well thays what i think

[Voodoo]

I agree with All4, like I lost it when I was 13, but I regret it. To be honest, It is nothing special.

[MykeSoBe]

Believe me, running the risk of getting a sexually-aroused horny chick pregnant is nothing to boast about. More like fear about.

[kmac130]

to sound cooler to people

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Interesting question actually. I mean, WOW. It really is not anything to be proud of and as stated above..if there are no feelings "it is just sex" and rather disappointing. I would take it back now truthfully and really do regret it sometimes, but I now know that you have to have feelings involved. Make sure it is what you really want because it is something that you will never get back and may look back on it with not too fond of memories.

[Gleeboy1995]

well people are having sex younger and younger. I mean hell I lost it at 15 my sophomore year and by then most of the kids in my grade had already lost it freshman year. I mean I have my doubts about people losing their v-card at 12 or 13 (especially this many people) but they are doing it younger these days.

[prob1996]

I know what you mean. I came onto this sight and started reading about 12 & 13 yrs having sex already and was like wtf??? I'm sure it happens but still just seems too young. Idk to sound cool i guess.

[bornthisway]

It makes you sound cooler. But honestly, saying you lost it at 12, you just sound easy. And didnt even know what you were doing.

[wyatt]

I learned about his in a psychology book i read. Social Psych makes me think; they do it for attention, acceptance, better image, then of course there it always the ignorance factor ;)

[jake14]

lol is that even possible at 12 years old??

[adam1995]

well people are having sex younger and younger. I mean hell I lost it at 15 my sophomore year and by then most of the kids in my grade had already lost it freshman year. I mean I have my doubts about people losing their v-card at 12 or 13 (especially this many people) but they are doing it younger these days.

True. I definitely think that there is a lot of lying in these forums, but I know for a fact that a lot of kids are having sex at 13, 14... So, it's not all lies.

[JackShephard]

Interesting question actually. I mean, WOW. It really is not anything to be proud of and as stated above..if there are no feelings "it is just sex" and rather disappointing. I would take it back now truthfully and really do regret it sometimes, but I now know that you have to have feelings involved. Make sure it is what you really want because it is something that you will never get back and may look back on it with not too fond of memories.

My first and only person was someone who I will always love. Then it was the kind of love lovers have and now it is the kind of love where we are friends who would take a bullet for each other. Honestly, I actually like that my crush faded because what he have now works better. I think I was one of the luck ones.

[User Deleted]

Well... people lie about a lot of things to 'fit in' primarily. To be accepted has become, religiously, a desire we follow in this society.

[Paladin]

It makes you sound cooler. But honestly, saying you lost it at 12, you just sound easy. And didnt even know what you were doing.

I really did fuck at 12 and you are SO right -- I had no idea what I was doing. It wasn't love. I don't know what it was. She was 10 years older than me and we weren't careful. I'm just lucky nothin bad happened. It's the only time I've had sex and that was 2 years ago. Next time I do it will be different. I'm not sorry I did it. Just sorry I did it the way I did. Kinda. I'm glad I had the experience.

[JackShephard]

I really did fuck at 12 and you are SO right -- I had no idea what I was doing. It wasn't love. I don't know what it was. She was 10 years older than me and we weren't careful. I'm just lucky nothin bad happened. It's the only time I've had sex and that was 2 years ago. Next time I do it will be different. I'm not sorry I did it. Just sorry I did it the way I did. Kinda. I'm glad I had the experience.

WOAH she was 22? That's like illegal. And she should be in trouble for that!! That's not right. This sort of thing can really mess with younger kids. I was molested once and it messed with me a lot. It bothered me and made me afraid of some adults. But I guess your experience was consensual (assuming because you seem at least a little glad to have the experience)

[mrbob360]

thre jus doing it to act cool im 17 and still a virgin and my friend is 19 and hes a virgin both waiting for the right person

[RJGarrett]

I don't know, I'm ok with saying I'm a virgin and plan tho stay that way for a while.

[impact_75]

no clue......... i guess cause that makes them a "man", and will put them on top of the world:confused: trust me, those lies will catch up 2 them

[JohnFitz]

lol is that even possible at 12 years old??

lmfao exactly

[JohnFitz]

it's terrible that in todays age some kids need to say they have had sex to fit in!

[BigG]

How do you know they're lying I wasn't when I said I lost mine at 12-BigG

[Giles]

Well first off you need to realise that everyone lies, it's the internet and there's no way to prove truth nor lies unless you know them irl and even then it's not always possible. Secondly don't assume that they're lying, I get it a lot with the penis size thing because I was/am larger than average for my age now and at 13/14. So don't assume that just because it's unlikely it isn't true.

That said, people lie because they can. If someone is in a position where they can lie and not have and consequences then they will do that, no matter what it's about. Get used to it.

[Rossboy]

to make you jealous!

[Josh233]

to sound cool haha why else

[DoctorWho]

i think because they wanna have more friends or aren't who they say they are

[Carna]

no clue......... i guess cause that makes them a "man", and will put them on top of the world:confused: trust me, those lies will catch up 2 them

It makes them less of a man than they were before lol. Seriously, lying about something like that makes you less than a man because a 'real man', per-se, would actually tell the truth. That's just my view on it. And I do agree with y ou. The lies will catch up to them and end up giving them hell.

[chris1997]

i think it's about there pride and if someone asks them if their a virgin they won't be honest

[VamosToro]

I hate when people lie, you just look like a tool. Then people look at me like i'm unusual because I don't want to have sex yet. It doesn't feel right.

[TheBigUnit]

I see so many people on here stating they had sex when they were like 12 and such and it is very very obvious they lie about it. I'm a virgin I'm not going to lie. I don't get why people do that. Why do they do it?

So they can sound like a tool lol

[Kujiro]

Social acceptance, popularity among peers, pride and ego.
Somehow or rather everyone would in someway or another lie to be accepted into a certain social circle.

Thats basically what its about i suppose.