So my dad

[MadManWithaBox]

Said I should kill myself. Sent me a razor blade and everything. Opinions. Any fucking thing?

[Maeria]

throw it out. ignore him. tell your mother, or someone else. wtf. why would he do that?

[brokengirl16]

dont listen to your dad! what the hell is he trying to get you to kill yourself for tell your mum or a family member straight away your dad sounds sick in the head by the looks of it get away from him dont be near him before he hurts you himself

[Bougainvillea]

Its unfortunate that there are people who act like him. I'm really sorry, but the thing to do is to do your best to ignore it. Its hard, I know, because I've been in this situation. If he's choosing to be an ugly person, and miss out on experiencing life with his son, then so be it. You will always have people who love you. It may not be the same as having a dad, but its still there, and it feels wonderful.

Again, I'm terribly sorry. And well... I love you. Even if I don't really know you.

[MadManWithaBox]

I should clarify, he sent it to me in a letter. 'if you have any love for this family at all, kill youreslf now. Then I can come back, and everything will be ok'

[Iris]

get the asshole arrested for harassment or something. or at least get a restraining order against him.

[Hershey's Kisses]

Your old enough to get a restrainig order against such an evil man. Get a restraining order against him and get as far away from him as possible and change your phone number . Ignore him. He's a piece of **** so I dont see why you acknowledge him. Like I said you really should call the cops or some legal thing to prevent him from harassing you.

[MadManWithaBox]

I live in Dublin, he's... somewhere in England. He sent a letter

[Hershey's Kisses]

So why don't you tell the police !!!!!

[MadManWithaBox]

I'm not sure what they could do.

[Hershey's Kisses]

.Why sont you get some help? There's no use being afraid of him. I'm sure they could do something . Why don't you get a restraining order ? Call someone ? Tell someone who could help.

[MadManWithaBox]

But he's in england. Why does a restraining order do.

[Hershey's Kisses]

A restraining order or order of protection is a form of legal injunction that requires a party to do, or to refrain from doing, certain acts. A party that refuses to comply with an order faces criminal or civil penalties and may have to pay damages or accept sanctions. Breaches of restraining orders, can be considered serious criminal offenses that merit arrest and possible prison sentences. The term is most commonly used in reference to domestic violence, harassment, stalking or sexual assault. In the United States, each state has some form of domestic violence restraining order law,[1] and many states also have specific restraining order laws for stalking[2] and sexual assault.[3]

Restraining and personal protection order laws vary from one jurisdiction to another but all establish who can file for an order, what protection or relief a person can get from such an order, and how the order will be enforced.

When the abuser does something that the court has ordered him or her not to do, or refuses to do something the court has ordered him or her to do, that is a violation of the order. The victim can ask the police or the court, or both, depending on the violation, to enforce the order.

[MadManWithaBox]

But they can't stop him sending me letters.

[Lethe]

Please don't take your own life! You are worth so much more than that. Do not let your father get the best of you; he isn't worth the ground you walk on or the air you breathe. Don't let him win! Stay strong, ignore the letter and dispose of the razor blade. And tell your family! Please!

[Hershey's Kisses]

Well maybe You can move ? Or , just ignore his childish ways. Or you could tell the authorities . If you want you can write him back. Go to court ? Sue him? Have him arrested ? You know you could give all of the proven details of harassment to the police . For instance: letters , notes pictures . If you go to court then it will be a proven offense .I'm not sure , but that sounds like abuse and harassment and shouldn't go unnoticed and he should receive the necessary punishment . Im sure there is some kind of system of laws against this .

[MadManWithaBox]

I'm not moving. That's doing what he wants.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Im so sorry that he sent you something so horribly hurtful! Please ignore him. To send that to someone is disgusting,let alone your own son. You could call upon the authorities to make sure he doesnt get away with it,or if he desides to pull something like that again,that its not possible. I hope you all the best. And please,dont take anything he said seriously. Your life is worth living.

[Lethe]

Im so sorry that he sent you something so horribly hurtful! Please ignore him. To send that to someone is disgusting,let alone your own son. You could call upon the authorities to make sure he doesnt get away with it,or if he desides to pull something like that again,that its not possible. I hope you all the best. And please,dont take anything he said seriously. Your life is worth living.

I think this is perfect advice :). Please tell someone that can do something to protect you!

[Iris]

^agreed.

He sounds like a maniacal asshole who doesnt deserve to be alive himself. His opinion is worth shit. Dont listen to him. Also if you could somehow send a letter back saying things like "you cant hurt me anymore" i think it would really help you get over the horrific things he did to u.

[MadManWithaBox]

There's no return address on it. I don't know where in England he is. i freaked out before, to be honest. He put a photo in. Of when he stabbed me, when I was 11. And he stabbed me. And made me clean my bloody up off the floor. Like lick it. I freaked out, honestly.

[Lethe]

He's obviously done terrible things to you. Do not give him the satisfaction of knowing that he has upset you with this letter.

You need to send the photo to the police. That is evidence to your abuse! If he sent you a picture of you licking your blood off the floor, then he is sending you material that you can use to have him arrested for his crimes. He has abused you and you need to stand up for yourself and take actions against him. Who knows who else he may have hurt since then? Don't take any chances.

[Iris]

yeah if you need strength think about who else the monster might be hurting. and go to the police with that picture. He has to suffer for what he did to you.

[MadManWithaBox]

He's only ever been violent to me. I was the kid they didn't want. He was great to my 2 brothers/sisters.

[Lethe]

That doesn't make his actions okay or excusable! No person should abuse another, no matter who they are. You need to tell the police and show them the picture. Your father needs to be put in a place where he cannot hurt anyone else. You have no idea who else he may be hurting. Don't lket anything bad happen to someone innocent! Do it for your own personal comfort and for others who may potentially be harmed.

[DifferentTides]

Woah, now that is probably one of the most messed up things i have ever heard of. I know im probably repeating what everyone else has said but just ignore it, tell your mum and again DON'T LISTEN TO A THING HE HAS SAID!!!!

This only shows that you are the better man than he is. You are worth so much more than that.

[MadManWithaBox]

Not really.

[bobby1273]

Just a few things, firstly your way better than your dad. Secondly if he's in England your can probably use English law against him, if it was me id try and in for harrisment charges. Also since your in Dublin you can use Irish law (id imagine its very similar to English law so harrisment again). If your gonna bring charges to him then you'd need to keep the stuff as evidence and you can always speak to the police for advise if nothing else.

And finally, quite seriously, you are way better than him.

I don't know he this is helpful or not but i hope it is.

[Azunite]

Well, now we can be assured that he is not your dad anymore. Don't let people, who think you are an obstacle in their life, be an obstacle in your life.

Though now we also know that he is a pshycopath. I am sorry to tell these kinda stuff about your dad, but if he sends the pictures of your stabbing, and knows your address, you better be careful.

[MadManWithaBox]

Well exactly. But I'm not being forced out by him.

[Love.Hate]

You know my opinion on him, i made that very clear last night.

Maybe you should tell the police? Because they can find where he is and put a restraining order on him.. i know yes he is en England, but it will put your mind at rest. He wont be able to come any where near you to play his sick mind games.

Dont let him hurt you again.

[Dunce]

Report him. Just go to the police. They have to do something something about it, it's abuse. It doesn't matter that he lives in England, as long as they get his name they have ways of finding him and action will be taken.

He's obviously sick in the head and always has been. It's not about you, it's about all the hate and anger he has inside him and he's taking it out on you. He shouldn't get away with it.