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CoolKid1230
June 22nd, 2011, 07:35 PM
Me and my friend are both 14 an male. Well we used to fool around A lot with the nervous game and I would let him go all the way and stroke menwith his hands. Well one night I asked him if he was bi. He said no and I asked him if he was still a virgin.. He said yes. Then he asked if I wanted him to give me a bj. I said yes and he did. It was the best feeling in the world. I am not attracted to guys. Does this make me bi?

crp2014
June 22nd, 2011, 07:42 PM
no it doesnt

Orton220
June 22nd, 2011, 08:00 PM
Some people say that getting a bj from another guy and enjoying it makes you gay/bi. But cmon if someone is sucking your dick, most humans will enjoy it no matter which gender. As long as your not physically/emotionally attracted to guys, then your not gay/bi.

oneandonly
June 22nd, 2011, 08:04 PM
A lot of people find the thought of doing something with someone close such as a friend very exciting. There is nothing wrong with doing it. Many people like to experiment with a friend, it does not make you bi.

CoolKid1230
June 22nd, 2011, 08:12 PM
What do girls think of this? They think it's weird?

Commander Thor
June 22nd, 2011, 08:39 PM
Sexual acts do not determine your sexuality. Period. (Though your sexuality /can/ determine your sexual acts)
You got oral sex and enjoyed it, so what?

To be bisexual, you have to have a physical attraction to both sexes (Attracted to the way they look, think "They're hot, they're cute" to yourself when you see someone), AND have an emotional/mental attraction with them (Do you see yourself having a relationship with either a girl or guy?).
If one or neither of those are true for you, you're generally classed under 'straight but curious'.
This is something most (All) teens grow out of.

Nicci
June 23rd, 2011, 01:23 AM
What do girls think of this? They think it's weird?

Personally I don't think it is all that weird. It's kind of the same with girls. Teens go through experimentation. It is pretty normal for friends to fool around with each other. This is probably a point in your life where you figure out if you are bi or not. Time will tell.

beardedboy
June 23rd, 2011, 07:22 AM
Absolutely not, sexuality has to do with not only the sex, but the emotions that you have for that gender. If you like other boys in the sense that you want to date them, then yes, you would be bi, but just because you enjoyed a blow job doesn't mean anything. I mean if you think about it, the body doesn't know if it is a guy or a girl sucking you, so as far as your body is concerned, your friend might as well be a girl. I hope this helps. PM me with any questions. :D

PS. you are so lucky to have a friend like that ;)

prob1996
June 23rd, 2011, 07:29 AM
Sexual acts do not determine your sexuality. Period. (Though your sexuality /can/ determine your sexual acts)
You got oral sex and enjoyed it, so what?

To be bisexual, you have to have a physical attraction to both sexes (Attracted to the way they look, think "They're hot, they're cute" to yourself when you see someone), AND have an emotional/mental attraction with them (Do you see yourself having a relationship with either a girl or guy?).
If one or neither of those are true for you, you're generally classed under 'straight but curious'.
This is something most (All) teens grow out of.

^^^This exactly! Just means your horny and curious like the rest of us. Don't worry too much over it

Philleeep
June 23rd, 2011, 07:50 AM
not at all you just enjoy the sensation xx like most guys its still a sexual act, it doesnt matter from what gender, a monkey could give you a bj and you would still enjoy the feeling.

Gleeboy1995
June 23rd, 2011, 05:20 PM
What are you if you're physically attracted to both sexes but only emotionally attracted to women? Heteroflexible? Straight but curious? bicurious?