Relationship Problem..?

[grock]

Well, I will try to explain the story in good detail but try to make it short.

Okay, so the story begins in early February. I added this girl on Facebook, lets call her Jasmine. She was one of my friend's teammates on a soccer team. They are both in the 7th grade, while I was in the 8th. We started talking and eventually I got her number and we would text from the beginning of the day until one of us went to bed. We hung out one time in March and by that point we both liked each other. Unfortunately we stopped talking for a while until about mid April. We were both bored one day in late April so I asked her to hang out and we did, I wasn't sure if I still liked her at that point but I pulled some moves on her and got her to hold my hand, after that we were sitting on a bench hugging, then she sat on my lap, we also made out, so we acted like a real couple. After we both got home we texted each other and all I remember is "We screwed up, didn't we?" We kept talking about what happened, and why it happened. May passed by and seldom did we ever talk, whenever I tried to talk to her she would pretty much FIND reasons to make me not want to talk to her. Like if I asked "When do you have a game?" she would reply something like "Heck if I know!" She would also be very boring with replies such as "Ok" "No" "Sure" and no smiley faces. When we used to talk before it was so much different and better.

How do I get her back, at least as a good friend?

[Havok]

Seems in this situation there is no way to trick her into feeling comfortable, I.E jokes,mutual friends, etc. I think the only thing you can do is straight up tell her that you don't like the way you are interacting now, (heres where it gets tricky), if you still like her, DO NOT TELL HER, at least not at first. Becuase then it sounds like an ultimatium and for some reason when a guy expresses affection for a girl that just wants to be a friend, they bolt. But there is plenty of time for that, for now you need to tell her that you want to start hanging out again like you used to, and that you are sorry for the way things are now (if you like her, then this is a twist by not admitting that you are sorry about what LED to it). Don't expect her to get comfortable with you again instantly, instead keep up contact with her, even if she keeps answering with "no" and "ok". Just talk to her about anything like you used to, don't bring up what happened unless she does. Overall just be friendly and MAKE SURE to keep up communication, eventually she should realize that she is overracting and will (slowely) open up again.