confused

[skiitelzz19]

hi um i like guys and im attracted to them alot but i often look at girls n think omg shes really hott does that mean im bi or just curious please help!!

[poocsl]

I would say curious because it sounds like you're not really into being in relationships with these girls.

[Scarface]

Sorry to say, but that was just a very vague and not very descriptive way of showing how you feel. I mean I could say for instance:

I like penis
But I like his girls hair
But I like this guys ass
Am I bi?

I guess what's I'm trying to say is; how do you feel emotionally, how do you feel around the people that you do like as in guys or girls alike? Hell it just could mean that you liked what she had on, or what she smelled like. That's perfectly okay. I personally don't consider "curiosity" to be a sexuality. If you like both emotionally, physically etc..

Like with me and guys how I really got into figuring myself out was like this:

When I'm around a guy that I like, almost everything he does turns me on, such as the way he smells. Or the way he reacts when I challenge him at something, or how he gets nervous when I bring up an awkward discussion or laughs at some of the stupid things that I do. Or how I know I could just stay up all night or day and talk with him because I know we'd never run out of things to talk to. Or the physical attraction to where certain..... body parts specifically to one sex or the other. Just to be blunt. If that small explanation of feelings comply to any of yours maybe you could start contemplating what you like, but just take your time. No rush in labeling yourself something that you're not sure of and being "curious" in my opinion, is no where near a sexuality.

[Gleeboy1995]

Sounds like you're gay but you can admire a girl's beauty. I knew a gay guy who was grossed out of the thought of having sex with a woman but would freely comment whenever he saw a girl that he thought was pretty.

[skiitelzz19]

i meant that most of the girls that i say are hot look like dudes so does that just make me straight becuz they dont really look like girls

[Scarface]

You could just be having a lot of hormones, this goes along with puberty hun.. All depends on how you feel, I just wouldn't go as far as to label you anything really. Especially since you haven't given really any evidence to believe you are one or the other :P but maybe you like the manliness side of people? regardless of gender?

[prob1996]

I know how you feel. It's pretty confusing for me too. I like guys and messed around with a couple and its great but I still get turned by girls. I've just never been with one in that way yet so Idk. As my bro told me "It's all good though, don't worry too much about it. You'll figure out what you like and what you don't."

[Shenron]

Your sexuality is more than what you find physically attractive. You must be emotionally attracted to guys as well. Just because you favor girls that look like guys in no way determines your sexuality.

[skiitelzz19]

thnx everyone for the help i really appreciate it !!