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ReasonsForWeeping
June 20th, 2011, 08:58 AM
everything has gone wrong i mean really it has up is down down is up idk what to do where to go who to trust everyone uses me im sick of it idk care how nice you are to me just please don't use me or take advantage of me i just need help i have to be strong i have to i don't have a choice i need someone to be there for me but i don't have anyone or trust anyone im to afraid to let someone in again to just tare me apart im scared alone and afraid but that's not how i look on the outside on the outside im strong and tough no one would ever think that im really like this im to scared to show them i need someone to be there for me but i have no one what if i trust someone and they hurt me again im afraid :( :confused:

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June 20th, 2011, 11:19 AM
Well I cant say too much unless you clarify your situation but I'll try.

Someone I know often tells me, "You don't need a lot of friends, just one good one." So try and find one person in your life, perhaps go make a friend, who you can fully and wholeheartedly trust. Tell them what has gone wrong if you feel they will respect what you say, and stay close with them. If you find a true friend like that you can get so much support. Just remember, you don't need a lot of friends just one good one.

ReasonsForWeeping
June 20th, 2011, 12:21 PM
here i hope this can clear up some things http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=106457

User Deleted
June 20th, 2011, 01:33 PM
Well, umm, that's quite the situation and I am fairly sure that there are some legalities involved in that. I would suggest maybe talking to your school counselor and/or principal for starters. (if you are up for it) You may also want to talk with your mom about how you feel things are wrong if she will listen. Second like I said it might be good to tell some friends you seriously trust. Third, please, don't kill yourself, things will get better for sure. Once you are 18 you don't have to be with your parents so even if it takes until then its better than being dead. Now, this is a very unusual situation, so few people have experience with it (no, I haven't been in this situation, I am just trying to think as if I was in your position) and you may want to make these decisions on your own because once you take a step, you cant turn back.

At this point, the best option I see is talking to people to summarize it. Just do what you feel is best ;)