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Foals
June 18th, 2011, 09:51 AM
Hello, I am 16 years old, and there is something about me that very bothers me a long time- I never feel like kissing girls (and boys...).
I don't think it is not any problem of late puberty, I started to get attracted to women in a normal average age, I always feel like touching their body, and my dick gets hard when I see sexy women, and both my physical and behavioral growth is above average.
I've also noticed that watching lesbians kiss doesn't bothers me in any sexual way, although I do very enjoy seeing lesbian-contact.
It's also important to mention I am lip-virgin (I never kissed), probably cause I never looked forward for kissing.
Will this difference ever stop? Will I always not feel like kissing? Or maybe I'm overreacting and their are many other boys in the same age that still didn't come to that stage?
GeorgeCurious
June 18th, 2011, 10:02 AM
I'm sorta' like this as I've never kissed a guy/girl before, however unlike you, when I watch lesbians kiss, this turns me more on then the contact.
grstl
June 18th, 2011, 10:08 AM
As a kid, our family only kissed on the cheek, so when I started puberty, I thought mouth-to-mouth kissing was kind of gross. When I wasn't sure if I was gay I always frustrated my girlfriend by dreading her wet kisses and wiping them off. This didn't slow us down in other areas (we now have a kid).
Then I met a random guy one day and we got to feeling and trying stuff. The farthest we got was a great, hot kiss which left me wanting more. I think now I was surely gay all along and that was what made it so wonderful.
I still gross out with girls or sloppy wet kisses so I can relate to you. But, perhaps trying kissing with a girl then a guy will let you know if it is kissing or gender which is the issue for you.
Foals
June 18th, 2011, 10:09 AM
Nice to see I'm not the only one...But one question, when you see the lesbians, does it turn you on because of the lip contact or both the lips and the body contact?
grstl
June 18th, 2011, 11:13 AM
For me it has to be guys, but just seeing the lip contact reminds my body how exciting things got when I finally kissed the right gender for me. Kissing with passion does involve the whole body inside and out.
Foals
June 19th, 2011, 02:10 AM
As a kid, our family only kissed on the cheek, so when I started puberty, I thought mouth-to-mouth kissing was kind of gross. When I wasn't sure if I was gay I always frustrated my girlfriend by dreading her wet kisses and wiping them off. This didn't slow us down in other areas (we now have a kid).
Then I met a random guy one day and we got to feeling and trying stuff. The farthest we got was a great, hot kiss which left me wanting more. I think now I was surely gay all along and that was what made it so wonderful.
I still gross out with girls or sloppy wet kisses so I can relate to you. But, perhaps trying kissing with a girl then a guy will let you know if it is kissing or gender which is the issue for you.
Before met that guy, did you ever thought or suspected you also like men?
MusicRox
June 19th, 2011, 04:12 AM
Everyone feels differently:yes:, I like kissing but tongue feels so wrong for me.
Speedy29
June 19th, 2011, 07:40 AM
i like to kiss, any kind lol. maybe its just a stage but yoll grow out of it....hopefully
hmc863
June 19th, 2011, 10:36 AM
I dont really like to kiss eather I mean I will do it but I really dont like to.
Silentkink
June 19th, 2011, 02:21 PM
I have never thought of it before, but I really do not like kissing others, I really have no idea, but it isn't that it bothers me, but for some reason I just do not like it. I find it fine, if I have a quick kiss leaving my gf, or if I am leaving my family for a long amount of time, but other than that I really am not into it. Also I like lesbians, a lot, it is one of the biggest turn on's for me.
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