My Ex GF

[TheDoctor]

so I recently (about a month ago) broke up with my GF. Seeing as it was really the first time I had to break up with anyone before I didn't know how to do it and as a result it kind of got messy. So now I'm really depressed because I really wanted to stay friends with her but she can't even stand to be in the same room as me :( any advice to try and mend our friendship?

[Roar]

Tell her that, and apologize to her and say you'd still like to be friends. There isn't really any other way. If she doesn't want to be around you after that, then maybe you just need to give it some time.

[Charleigh]

Time and patience. When she is in the same room as you, just ignore her, dont push on her unless shes like hey. Just walk into the room and sit down away from her and make conversation with the other people there. Eventually start including her in the conversation. Just pretend you dont give a fuck, then slowly reel her back in.

[LuckyLuke]

Time and patience. When she is in the same room as you, just ignore her, dont push on her unless shes like hey. Just walk into the room and sit down away from her and make conversation with the other people there. Eventually start including her in the conversation. Just pretend you dont give a fuck, then slowly reel her back in.

Exactly what she said.... of course I'd also include the first commentators advice of telling her exactly what you've expressed in your question.