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footie-mad
February 6th, 2007, 07:28 AM
i really like this girl and she says she would go out with me if i asked her but she has kissed lots of boys and ive never kissed a girl so im worried that i will embaress myself and im really shy around girls when it comes to kissing etc so i was wondering if u could give me any advice or help

Underground_Network
February 6th, 2007, 08:05 PM
Go for it and don't worry about kissing. If she doesn't like you for being a bad kisser than you shouldn't go out with her. If you truly like her for who she is and she likes you for who you are then it should work out. But just as I said, go for it.

lilmandrewl
February 16th, 2007, 10:16 AM
like he said man, go for it, if she breaks up with you cause your a bad kisser, then shes just a crazy chick lookin for a good time not a relationship and just ain't worth it. but i have a girlfriend whos like ur crush, shes kissed a lot before and i had never but its all basic instinct you'll know what to do when you get there

rob
February 17th, 2007, 12:12 AM
dont worry about. if she has that much experience she will take care of everything and all you have to do is enjoy it

Deacan
February 16th, 2008, 08:02 PM
rob, your pickle and banana thing is trippy, but like rob and Andrew said, just go for it, you have nothing to lose, if she breaks up with you, she's extremely shallow, and not worth wasting a relationship on

ThatCanadianGuy
February 16th, 2008, 08:47 PM
You said she had experience with other guys.... I'm sure she'll be happy be your kissing teacher! :D

There are actually a couple of videos on youtube that show how to kiss without at least totally making a fool of yourself or grossing out your partner. Look up "how to kiss" and you should find them!

Remember; practice makes perfect! :yeah:

Kaleidoscope Eyes
February 16th, 2008, 11:04 PM
Your first kiss isn't likely to be a full-on make-out session anyways (at least mine wasn't) so don't worry too much about it. Just do what feels natural. And if all else fails, copy what she's doing until you're comfortable enough to start doing your own thing. She won't call you on it because she won't notice, and it'll keep you from doing anything she might find weird.

jay92
February 16th, 2008, 11:10 PM
my first girlfriend had already had sex, when i hadnt even kissed a girl b4 and she didnt have a problem with it. and i was BAD, but she kinda taught me so dont stress to much

Chatsworth
February 20th, 2008, 07:53 AM
I say just go with what the others say. The true nice girls out there won't be looking for the perfect kisser, its personality.

byee
February 20th, 2008, 11:58 AM
You're getting waaay too ahead of yourself here! We're talking about going out, not kissing just yet!

Kissing is 'on the job' training, it comes from a very special part of yourself, it's very emotional and based on how you feel about the other person. It's not so much about prior experience! So, there's this unknown part of yourself waiting to be discovered. When the time is right, and the feelings are there, you (and she!) might discover a real, hidden talent.

Don't worry about it, you'll be fine. Just wait until the feelings are there and lead with your heart.

Undying -15-
March 2nd, 2008, 01:21 AM
Just Start Out Slow. Build Up. Get Position. And When You Think You Can Do It... Go For It!
I've Had That Experience Ever Since 12 Dude.

sms22
June 18th, 2012, 11:49 AM
You will know when to kiss her. It will just come to you like an idea.

SLABBS
June 18th, 2012, 11:56 AM
dont worry, mate. my first kiss was with a girl who had had several boyfriends in the past whom shed kissed. its ok to be nervis about it, but you just gotta keep calm and man up about it when the moment comes. so dont be afraid to kiss her. if you fuck up she wont think any less of you.