Gay sex

[Dark Sparrow]

Right I'm stuck in limbo about my own sexuality

Just wondering, can I actually be gay if the thought of gay sex still disgusts me, depends on my mood to how much

[ShatteredWings]

If you're referring to anal sex, that's not the only form of "gay sex".

[Dark Sparrow]

Yes I'm referring to anal, that's the virginity breaker, or is it not?

[ShatteredWings]

virginity is what you make of it. Personally I consider oral sex, sex.
doesn't mean your not gay though. Some pepole aren't into certain things.

[kmac130]

it all depends on what you conceder being gay. u could also b bi

[Dark Sparrow]

So i have sucked a guy off, not been sucked only been handjobed once (he did like my thing and put mouth round for one insertion but wasn't really a blow job, in my opinion atleast), would u say due to me sucking I'm not a virgin?


And wont guys get annoyed if I didn't do anal

[Shenron]

So i have sucked a guy off, not been sucked only been handjobed once (he did like my thing and put mouth round for one insertion but wasn't really a blow job, in my opinion atleast), would u say due to me sucking I'm not a virgin?


And wont guys get annoyed if I didn't do anal

As was said earlier, virginity is what you make of it. There are those who consider you to have lost your virginity after any sexual act and those who only say you have lost your virginity if you have had some form of intercourse. It is really up to you. There is no defining act that makes you lose your virginity.

As for your second question, different people have different tastes, if you are not into recieving anal, only willing to give it, then you would find a partner who is the opposite, if you aren'e into anal at all then I could see where that could be a problem but then again, you never know. Also, we can not tell you your sexuality, only you can determine that, we can give you our opinion, but remember, it is just that, an opinion.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Sex is what you make of it. Just go slow and enjoy it and do what you want, discuss it with your partner (either male or female) and make sure it is what you both want. Enjoy it..if you talk about it, there is no room for anyone being upset at what you try and do not try.

[mrbob360]

some people prefer sending rather than receiveing and vice a versa my bf said he would prefer if i did him so its all down to personal preference and no if the boy does mind then you shouldnt be with him