Masturbation privacy problem

[RyanT]

I share a room with my brother who's nearly 13 and started puberty. In the past I used to be able to masturbate in bed quietly but now he's starting to understand about masturbation so if he hears noises he'll know what I'm doing. I think he also does it now too because I sometimes hear his sheets rustling and see stains on his underwear when he takes them off in the morning and leaves them on the floor. It's really akward trying to clean up quietly so I usually just leave the sperm in my boxers and just change in the morning like him. I also can't do it in the shower anymore because last week my dad put a timer on the shower so I can only be in there for 5 min to save water and it would be suspucious if I was on the toilet for to long.
So to sum up:
Have you ever had to share a room and masterbated in bed?
Did you cum in your underwear and leave it there or how did you cleanup?
Did you hear them masterbating?
Do you know what they did with their sperm?
Any advice?

Thanks::)

[kdddd]

Hey man I've not had that problem. But you could just talk to him tell him it is and stuff and just it's cool and then not worry If he hears or sees you

[LuckyLuke]

Why not be honest with him? You're 14 and he's 13, that's really close. Since you're both going through the same thing you might as well tell him seeing as he'll probably understand and is thinking the EXACT same thing you are.

[Alex0297]

I have a similar problem, but sometimes I wait until everyone is asleep and go jack off in the bathroom. Do you live by the woods or a park? You could tell your parents you were going on a walk and go in an area where nobody would see you. Do you live by a friend? Maybe once in a while you could go over to his house and masterbate with him. These are just some ideas.

[Giles]

Luckily I've never had that problem, but you might just have to masturbate as fast as you can; if you want to do it often anyway. Otherwise you'll have to wait for an opportunity where you're either alone or get the chance for whatever reason.

Just wondering, can't you just clean up with a tissue or something, ejaculate straight into the tissue and done. That can't make that much noise.

[RyanT]

Luckily I've never had that problem, but you might just have to masturbate as fast as you can; if you want to do it often anyway. Otherwise you'll have to wait for an opportunity where you're either alone or get the chance for whatever reason.

Just wondering, can't you just clean up with a tissue or something, ejaculate straight into the tissue and done. That can't make that much noise.

It's hard to aim into a tissue without getting sperm on the covers and I'd rather have it just in my boxers than getting it allover my body off the sheets

[tonks12]

Well , considering you two are really close in age, I would just have a talk with him. Odds are he won't care since he (probably) does it too. Then your problem is solved

[CryWolf]

I'm 15 and I share a room with my 14 yr old bro. We've just been upfront and no problems dude. I mean you gotta do what you gotta do. Better to do it with no stress man. Enjoy it!

[Donkey]

Really not puberty or sex-ed related. :locked: