for all the bi's and gay guys

[MusicRox]

What made you decide u liked guys?
And was is someone in particular who made u turn?

[Calex]

I always had an attraction to guys and girls. I was young so I thought I was weird or crazy for that. In middle school I met a friend who was like that and he told its okay, there are people like that all over. So I learned from him the word Bisexual and decideed that is what I am.

[BrianTheGiant]

I had a crush on a male teacher, after that I started watching gay porn, liked it much better than straight porn and decided I was gay.

[Tristin.]

you just casualy one day decide to be gay, its who you are.

i realised i was gay when i was about 12. i never have seen an attraction to girls, yes they are pretty but thats it. i also fell madly in love at that time, with the most amazing boy ever. so bam there you go :P

[Neverender]

You don't suddenly choose to be gay, you fool.

Neither do people make you "turn" gay. People like you make us sound bad or conspiring.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

I agree with Neverender, you do not just wake up one day and say "Hey I am Bi and /or Gay" it is a long thoughtful process (at least for me anyways) that I think about alot and still am confused about at times. I think each individual will determine, on their own what exactly you are and the road you take to explore examine and finally make the decision. Go slow and seek assistance from others (this is a great forum to get alot of thoughts about what is going on without feeling bad or getting "judged". Good Luck.

[rooxboo]

You don't decided you gay. You just are. Eventually if you believe in your feelings you'll finally know. And shouldn't this be in the Teen Sexuality forum?

[Lights]

i realised i was gay when i was about 12. i never have seen an attraction to girls, yes they are pretty but thats it. i also fell madly in love at that time, with the most amazing boy ever. so bam there you go :P

Similar story with me to be honest. :rolleyes:

[Donkey]

Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality

[JField]

Lol. Yeah I believe you just take time and a powerful thought process to determine what exactly you like (gender wise). I for one just never seen girls as attractive or appealing, however i see guys as just straight out yummy. Plus the first crush i had was on a boy i thought i fell madley in love with.
*Excuse My Spelling

[redmann]

ya idk i just did alot of thinking and finally came to accept it. like i knew i was gay i just didnt want to accept it

[sieg]

well we dont really decide which gender we like, we just kinda realise it/accept it. Bailey made me KNOW FOR A FACT i was into guys.

[Shenron]

I just inherently knew. I've always liked guys, I can even remember when I first found out what a blow job was, the first thing that went through my head was "I;ll never be able to give a blow job" lol (I was very young, like 9 or so) So anyway, I just knew.

[TheDoctor]

for me really I always new I was into guys. From me fooling around in a tent with my friend when I was 13 to jerking off my other friend when I was 15 I've always thought it was "normal" to be with guys like that so...

[mrbob360]

What made you decide u liked guys? i just realised that i was attracted to boys
And was is someone in particular who made u turn? no i made the decsion by myself :)

[whereismymind]

I had crushes on guys and in all honesty had wet dreams over guys. The attraction to girls kinda died down, I was kinda in denial for a while and I thought I was bi but a guy full on kissed me and it just felt right.

[theatregeek]

I've always been attracted to boys, but didn't realize it till later. I watched gay porn a lot when I was in middle school and even had crushes on guys during seventh/eighth grade. Freshman year I came to terms with the fact I was gay as a rainbow after falling hard for another gay guy.

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

What made you decide u liked guys?
And was is someone in particular who made u turn?
I really don't think it is a question of "deciding" to like guys, or girls for that matter. I believe we are born with our sexual identity. Now there are factors that can have an impact of our sexuality, such as environment, learned behavior, and parental influences.
As I said, we just don't wake up one morning and decide that we are going to be attracted to one sex or the other.

[bhoyS]

I accidently clicked on a gay porn video and liked it and never looked back since :D

[Emiil]

Robert Pattinson. yummie;D

[Starlight Blaze]

well to tell you the truth i started to realize that i liked guys sometime early in middle school...though i really ignored it until my 9th grade year. Then I saw Stephen.
Stephen was amazing. Perfect. The way he looked, moved, laughed, everything. I truly realized that guys came before any girl could. I took a long time acceping it, and only by the effort of my closest friend Tiffany (who happened to be Stephen's cousin) did I truly accept it. I started to come out, and my parents found out. About the same time, I was struggling with religion. And then I met Greg. Greg didn't know that I was coming out, and I didn't tell him. He helped with the religion bit of my struggle, and soon enough I was going to his church (LDS/mormon). I really loved the church and felt like I belonged. Because of this I subconsiously surpressed my feelings for guys and went on living a straight life. This went on for a very long time. However, even during this I had problems with feelings and sexual thoughts about guys, and watched gay pornography. I kept going to church and having this problem until Greg left for college. Then my mom stopped me from going to church. I wasn't allowed to go, and I had to discover a new path. So I became depressed. This lasted a long while also. Then 10th grade came around. I just went through shool, really without friends. I then get halfway through the year, and I feel something. That spark. Stephen. He's there. And I love it. I love him. I love boys. Then it was a process of me accepting it and coming out, which is a boring story, so I won't bore you with that. And this is my story. Thank you for reading. :D

[Wicked_Syn]

I have chosen to erase my previous answer to this question

[Orton220]

Im 17 m bi. Like me and my friend used to play with eachother when we were like 5. And it was fun cuz i didnt know any better. But as i got older i realized im attracted to both guys and girls. And not really someone in particular but this one guy named vince really turned me on

[Pancakes]

I thought I knew I could love a guy and I loved the expirementing with my friend so I figured I would like to be bi :P

[thebgsamuel]

i hade a cruch on a girle but a boy at the same time

[Fishes]

i was only staight and curious but there was this guy that i had more thana sexual attraction to so thats how i figured out i was bi

[RoseyCadaver]

I've always been rather androgynous ,recently though,I realized I don't only act like both,but I like both,

[man with freaky plan]

Originally I think I realised I was attracted to a guy in one of my classes, I started to question my sexuality and decided I was bi after I found that I liked gay porn and stuff of that sort :P

[prob1996]

I thought I knew I could love a guy and I loved the expirementing with my friend so I figured I would like to be bi :PI'm kinda the same way. I mess around with my best friend and care for him but I can see myself liking a girl the same way. So I guess I'm bi.

[jrl719]

It's really not a wake up "Oh I'm gay!", kinda deal. You do need to put thought into it, though that day you come out feels great. And someone can HELP you come out, though not make you come out(I can't think of how to word that)

For me, I was bullied by being called gay, and it got so bad, that I started to believe them. When I got into my Freshman year, I met tons of new friends, joined my schools Gay Straight Alliance(LPGST), and also met two gay guys. And just the supportive atmosphere helped me come out.

So there is my loving story of how I became a proud rainbow man xD. I think that's what I shall call gay people now, rainbow people. I like it, it makes me smile. :D

[Jagster]

This is an offensive questions. The only way I think someone can make being homosexual a "choice" is if they swear off the opposite sex forever. In all seriousness though, this is a little offensive to me. You are entitled to your freedom of opinion and speech, but I'm just weighing in.

I never "turned" gay, I just knew I was it when I felt a difference when I dated a girl, and then a guy. That's all I have to say about the subject.

[terbear]

I decided the same day you decided to be straight, the same day when the sun decided to turn hydrogen to helium, and the same day when the asteroid decided to kill the dinosaurs.

[Maxxie]

It was really more of a gradual thing than anything else. But, honestly, the one guy who really clicked was Austin...

[Abigballofdust]

I was always gay. Even when I was a kid I used to say that boy was cute but had no interest towards girls nevertheless.
Then I got an internet connection and when I felt like I googled 'gay porn'.
Then it took me a few years to accept it.
Also, you're born gay. You don't decide to become one; this is a so bullshit and people believing it are seriously gifted.
There are, though, people that say they're gay just because they're attention whores... They should be forcefully double penetrated by 2 gifted black men. So they see the joyrides of being gay.

[AltoVaughn]

I was always gay. Even when I was a kid I used to say that boy was cute but had no interest towards girls nevertheless.
Then I got an internet connection and when I felt like I googled 'gay porn'.
Then it took me a few years to accept it.
Also, you're born gay. You don't decide to become one; this is a so bullshit and people believing it are seriously gifted.
There are, though, people that say they're gay just because they're attention whores... They should be forcefully double penetrated by 2 gifted black men. So they see the joyrides of being gay.

^ This. Don't ask gay people while they're gay. Stupid question.

It's like asking Oprah why she's black.

[Skyhawk]

Allow me to mold these quotations into my answer:

What made you decide u liked guys?
And was is someone in particular who made u turn?

I really don't think it is a question of "deciding" to like guys, or girls for that matter. I believe we are born with our sexual identity......As I said, we just don't wake up one morning and decide that we are going to be attracted to one sex or the other.

This. Don't ask gay people while they're gay. Stupid question.

'Nuff Said.

It's like asking Oprah why she's black.

That just made me lol

Also...

And was is someone in particular who made u turn?

We didn't turn gay. We were born this way, all homosexuals are.

[spoke]

sometimes its good to ask questions, its how we learn. and with knowlege may come acceptance, hopefully.
my best friend and me fooled around when we were 12 and i loved it. i still feel a great attraction to boys and i'm still having fun with them, but i also become aroused by girls which is why i think i'm bisexual. as others have said nobody "turns" anything, and to me it's OK that you didn't know that. i like the fact that at least you're asking

[Can'tHelpIt]

Well i still dont know bc i want to time it bc it takes a long time but lately ive been looking at guys and well it is snowballing from there

[Joe1996]

You don't suddenly choose to be gay, you fool.

Neither do people make you "turn" gay. People like you make us sound bad or conspiring.

This says it all.
My very first sexual thoughts were with guys before I even knew what 'sexuality' meant or was. I thought I was like everyone else and I thought all guys liked guys. About a year after that I learned what someones sexuality was and because I had never liked a girl I knew I was gay.

Gay and proud ;)

[TrAnSMaN09]

I only recently started liking boys, And yes, it was someone specific that made me turn, His name's Mike, He's 22 (don't judge) and he's the sweetest guy i kno, he's gentle, kind, caring, and incredibly sexy and Handsome,

[Brice72]

I was uber curious as a young kid. I did sexual stuff since I was 10. It'd mainly been seal for the longest time. I've only had real crushes on about two guys. It's cause iron Ethel to be perfect. I think i may have also wanted to them.

[SilentKillah]

I fell in love with an amazing guy, and my first kiss was a guy. I realized I was Bi because I was attracted to both genders.

[ADC12]

i also fell madly in love at that time, with the most amazing boy ever. so bam there you go :P

Pretty much same wid me though im bi.. Ibwas jus crazy for this one guy :wub:

[noamillr]

I thought I was for some time but my when I saw my friend naked, I made my decision, I AM BISEXUAL AND LOVING IT!

[Fourth Dimension]

ive always known i was different but never really understood at 11 or 12 i started figuring it out and then at 13 i just knew wether i accepted it or not at the time thats another story

[jessehs]

ive done things with guys and girls, both were good so im bi

[highschoolboy96]

I'm bi and just figured it out after being turned on by guys. If you pop a boner a lot at the sight of naked guys, it makes you question yourself ;)

[Shadowin]

well i just felt an attraction about two years ago i knew because i had feelings for them and wanted to care for him

[Buddy]

You don't just decide. That would be like me asking a straight person when they decided that they liked the opposite sex. I realized that I liked guys around 5th grade, so I was around 10 or 11.

[Kujiro]

OP makes it sound as if being gay or bi was a matter of choice, and you switch because someone makes us turn.

Its as simple as this, when you feel that you love the same gender, in the way you would love the opposite gender. Along with factors of care, concern, understanding and respect for each other.

Its not a matter of choice or preference, its just the feeling which cannot be describe in words; that comes from truly understanding yourself.

[Kdude146]

well I am bi and in grade 8 at first I had cruches on girls then I started geting cruches on guys so I knew I was bi

[skypride]

What made you decide u liked guys?
And was is someone in particular who made u turn?

I never "decided" that I would like boys. It just turns out that I do.

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

You don't suddenly choose to be gay, you fool.

Neither do people make you "turn" gay. People like you make us sound bad or conspiring.

Couldn't have said it in a calmer manner myself.

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

well puberty started and i started getting curious about other guys. there were a few guys that i found attractive and a few girls as well. i tried to ignore the attraction to guys at first but it was unbearable to me and i couldnt do it. i couldnt call my self straight anymore

[BiBoy5674]

i don't know what i am but i just know i fancy a boy :) but i still love girls ;)

[canadaski]

I've always been attracted to boys sexually, although it first hit me around 8 or 9 when I would sneak peeks at the other boys junk in the pool changerooms. For some reason, ever since I can remember I've been afraid of looking at other naked guys because society says men and women should be together.

I sacrificed almost 10 years of my life because society wants me to be something I'm not and I regret it deeply.

I had only two girl crushes that I can remember, but that was before I really knew anything about homosexuality. I haven't had any relationships.

Fast forward to now, I'm 17 and in my last year of high school.

Attractive women do absolutely nothing for me. You could strip the most attractive woman in the world and throw her in a bedroom with me, I would rather take her skiing than have sex with her.

I used to be able to imagine in some way a sexual relationship with a woman but I'm pretty sure that was just a result of my HOCD symptomatic of OCD. All I see myself doing now is having a relationship with a guy, both sexual and emotional.

[Syvelocin]

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