Something weird w/cousin

[Eholt]

Hello, this is my first post.. :)

When I was about eight my female cousin was spending the night. She was five or six at the time. But a few days before that my older cousin was watching porn and I happened to see some of it. I thought what they were doing in it was normal. So when everyone was asleep I tried to do it with her. neither one of us knew what was going on or what we were doing so we stop after a few minutes. I'm 15 now and every time I see her I think of that moment and feel awkward. Should I talk to her about it or just keep it to myself. Because I hate feeling like this around her.

[PoseidonX43]

i dont think you should because it was along time ago let it go. you never know she might tell on you if you make her remember. hope i helped!

[Neverender]

You tried to do what with her? Masturbate? Touch? Intercourse?

Either way, it was a lack of judgement on your part, and since you were only 8 you couldn't have known the repurcussions of anything you did at the time to what happens now. How old are both of you now? If shes still youung [Pre-adolescent], don't talk about it. If shes older, you may. IF there is a mutual awkwardness between you, you'll both grow over it. If she doesn't or wouldn't remember, don't bring it up with her. That can damage the relationship.

[Nicci]

This happened between my cousin and myself, though I was the younger one. It bothers me sometimes, such as when thinking if it affects my sexuality at all, but she is the closest cousin I have still so I got over it. It depends on your guys relationship. Neither one of you knew what you were doing so no one is to blame. If it's bothering you I'd bring it up. I'd recommend jokingly, such as, "do you remember when...? That's so embarrasing now that I thnk about it!" I hope that helps!

[karlwithak]

so yeah tell us thes 3 questions 1 how old is she 2 what did u do 3 after ward what happened

[Ambrosia]

When I was little something similar to this happened with a neighbore friend of mine. We were both very young and she was only about two or three years older than me. Honestly, I forgot all about it until I read this. We still see eachother once a year, by chance, if even, and neither of us ever mention it and there is no awkwardness caused by it. Neither of us ever mention or bring it up only because we both are aware that this happened many years ago and it was something that neither of us would have understood.

So, you'll eventually lose that awkwardness once you admit to yourself that nothing happened seriously.

[grock]

Haha, something weird happened with me and my cousin. We are both males. We were like 4-6 and all I remember is being in a closet together with our dicks out, I remember my dad opening the door and looking at us, idk what we were doing. Then another time, we were behind some bushes with or little baby dicks out again and I remembered his mom like yelled at us from the balcony. I think out of the two of us I am the only one who remembered this but it isn't akward for me. I even reminded him of what happened, but I think its not weird or akward for us just because were like brothers.

[Alice]

You were 8 and she was 5 or 6 at the time? Ask her if she remembers what you did that night. Ask if she'd like to try it again.

[icy-hott]

I played doctor with my cousin when we were around 7 or 8. We joke about it now when we see each other. He offers to examine me all the time.