can somebody define virginity

[ackmedsgirl666]

im confused ppl tell me u lose it when u bleed
others say that if u involve urself with any kind of sexual attention or penetration u have lost ur virginity
im confused if i have lost mine or not.......
can someone define this

[Kaius]

You've lost your virginity when you've been vaginally or anally penetrated. You've never had sexual intercourse basically.

[ackmedsgirl666]

srsly then wahts this bs that u only lose ur virginity when ur hymen is broken and bleeds

[Kaius]

Different people define it differently I guess, but thats what most perceive virginity as. Considering your hymen can be broken by many things before sex has even occured I wouldn't really call that losing your virginity.

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[Joshuagoesrawr2]

If you have not had sexual intercourse, you are still a virgin. Therefore you still have yor virginity. You lose yor virginity when you have been penetrated through your anal or vagina. You don't have to bleed in order to lose your virginity and you cant lose your virginity with just a blowjob, handjob, fingering, or J/Oing.

[ackmedsgirl666]

can fingers be considered taking away ur virginity as well
since i have had sex with both sexes

[Kaius]

I wouldn't count it, no

[mbishop94479]

Losing your virginity, in my opinion, would involve some sort of sex. I don't view performing oral sex as losing your virginity. Whatever you define as having sex makes you lose your virginity. There's also those who say girls have both a straight and a lesbian virginity. If you're one of them, then you've lost both.

For me, losing your virginity is when you're penetrated either vaginally or anally by a penis. I don't think there's a lesbian virginity. So for me, yes. You can be a virgin by having sex with another girl in my opinion. It's more of your own opinion.

[Speedy29]

its pretty much when ever u have sex u lose it nd if u dont your still a virgin

[ackmedsgirl666]

oh okay i just wanted to clarify that cuz my bestfriend said i lost my virginity to my girlfriend because we had penetration during our sex....... either by fingers or whatnot
i believe i lost my straight virginity when i was 15 and my lesbian virginity this year
makes sense?

[mbishop94479]

Makes sense to me.

[ackmedsgirl666]

ksy so if somebody answers this i will understand
u don't have to bleed to lose ur virginity
am i right?

[mbishop94479]

Bleeding in what way? Your hymen breaks which causes you to bleed?

[ackmedsgirl666]

thats what i meant
cuz any time i have had sex i never bled and the first guy i had sex with went far enough in but i never bled

[mbishop94479]

Yes you are right. Regardless of if you bleed or not, you can still lose your virginity.

[ackmedsgirl666]

alright i think i understand this alot better now
thanks guys
mods can now lock this thread at my request

[Weeping]

srsly then wahts this bs that u only lose ur virginity when ur hymen is broken and bleeds

In that case you'd be able to loose your virginity through using a tampoon. Horseriding. A lot of stuff.. xD

[ackmedsgirl666]

yepp makes sense
but tampons dont go in the same hole tho

[mbishop94479]

yepp makes sense
but tampons dont go in the same hole tho

Tampons don't go in the same hole? Yes they do. What are you talking about?

[ackmedsgirl666]

u have two holes
one for pee and one fore babies so which one is it

[mbishop94479]

As far as I am aware, the hymen exists in the vagina, which is also where tampons go. Where else would it go?

[ackmedsgirl666]

in the other hole
idk i dont examine my vagine close enough

[mbishop94479]

You stick tampons in your vagina. Not the one for pee. Since you bleed out of your vagina on your period, it only makes sense to put it where the blood is coming from.

[ackmedsgirl666]

is that the same hole where babies come from

[mbishop94479]

Babies come out of the vagina.

[ackmedsgirl666]

okay u keep saying vagina but there is like a big hole inside of it right

[mbishop94479]

What do you mean?

[ackmedsgirl666]

theres two holes
one under ur clit for pee
and one inside your vagina that blood, cum, and babies come out for right

[mbishop94479]

Yes, that's right.

[maddy14]

This post is confusing me lol

[DerBear]

by the way their is no such thing is a gay virginity and a str8 viginity or lesbian verginity

[ackmedsgirl666]

are you sure
it makes sense if there is

[mbishop94479]

It might exist. However, it's not as strict as "normal" virginity. Gay/lesbian virginities are up to the person in question. It does make sense. I'd like to change what I said earlier. I do think there is a lesbian virginity, for lack of a better term, for girls. But it makes sense that it exists.

[ackmedsgirl666]

ah ok i see
makes more sense now

[HaydenM]

imo loosing your virginity is when you have penis to vagina contact for the first time.

[ackmedsgirl666]

it doesn't always have to be a penis
it can be a toy of any kind or any sort of sexual penetration using an object.
sometimes girls even lose their virginity to horseback riding

[Gee51]

You can only lose your virginity by anal or vaginal penetration from another person.

[HellHound]

You are really confused now :D.Virginity is linked to sex not horse back riding XD

[Brighteyes]

it doesn't always have to be a penis
it can be a toy of any kind or any sort of sexual penetration using an object.
sometimes girls even lose their virginity to horseback riding

If that's the case then I lost my virginity when I was five years old, when I first started horse riding!.....But we all know that is a total load of rubbish, DON'T WE?

I really do think that perhaps you should attend some very serious sex ed. lessons as it would appear that you are totally vague on the subject, and with regards to the function of your own body, which I do find extremely surprising considering your supposed age.

However just to put the point over to you, as have so many others have tried to do....You are and will remain a virgin until such time that you are penetrated (virginal sexual intercourse) by a man's erect penis.

Please read the pasted post below whereby I hope things will/might become much clearer to you :-

Virginity
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
"Virgin" and "Maiden" redirect here. For other uses, see Virgin (disambiguation) and Maiden (disambiguation).


In Roman times, the Vestal Virgins remained celibate for 30 years on penalty of death.
A virgin (or maiden) originally meant a woman who has never had sexual intercourse. Virginity is the state of being a virgin. It is derived from the Latin virgo, which means "sexually inexperienced woman". As in Latin, the English word is also often used with wider reference, by relaxing the age, gender or sexual criteria.[1] Hence, more mature women can be virgins (The Virgin Queen), men can be virgins, and potential initiates into many fields can be colloquially termed virgins; for example, a skydiving "virgin". In the latter usage, virgin simply means uninitiated.
By extension from its primary sense, the idea that a virgin has a sexual "blank slate",[2] unchanged by any past intimate connection or experience,[2] leads to the abstraction of unadulterated purity (see below). Hence, virgin can even be used with non-human referents. Unalloyed metal is sometimes described as virgin.[1] Some cocktails can be described as virgin, when lacking the alcoholic admixture.[1] Similarly, olive oil may be called virgin if it contains no refined oil and has an appropriate acidity.[3] Unfertilized gametes and computer systems can be virgin.[1] Females of various species, by analogy with Homo sapiens, if they have never mated, can also be called virgin.[1]
The loss of virginity may call to mind the end of innocence, and the beginning of sexual maturity. In this association "virgin" often references the first instance of a potentially extended series of like events. Just as extra-virgin olive oil is from the first pressing, so a maiden or virgin speech is an incumbent's first address. The same metaphor, using the synonym maiden, is applied to the first or maiden voyage of a ship. In cricket, a maiden over is an over from which no runs were scored. Maiden castles are those with the reputation of never having been captured.
Chastity does not imply virginity. Chastity derives from the Latin castitas, meaning "cleanliness" or "purity"—and does not necessarily mean the renunciation of all sexual relations, but rather the temperate sexual behavior of legitimately married spouses, for the purpose of procreation, or the sexual continence of the unmarried.[4]

[ackmedsgirl666]

still confused
but im serious i got told by my doctor that gurls can lose their virginity through sports horseback riding, or anything that can cause pressure or a girls hymen to tear and bleed

[User Deleted]

The literal definition is "the state of never having sexual intercourse" so is the new question define sexual intercourse because I think we all know what it means?

[Brighteyes]

still confused
but im serious i got told by my doctor that gurls can lose their virginity through sports horseback riding, or anything that can cause pressure or a girls hymen to tear and bleed

Although I find it extremely strange that a doctor, or come to that ANY DOCTOR would give you such useless and totally inaccurate information, this is quite simple to solve once and for all, as all you need to do is copy the above post of mine and present it to your doctor....Hopefully it might educate them as well.

Other than that if this course of action fails to work then am afraid you will have to continue going through life CONFUSED.

Sorry but I have more important things in life to be getting on with than wasting time with all this nonsense, so I will not be responding to this thread any more.

[HellHound]

girl,if you tear the hymen you are still a virgin.The only way to lose it is by penis penetration.

[joeyjorulz]

it doesn't always have to be a penis
it can be a toy of any kind or any sort of sexual penetration using an object.
sometimes girls even lose their virginity to horseback riding

I must take exception to this statement.

1. it doesn't always have to be a penis it can be a toy of any kind or any sort of sexual penetration using an object.
It can only be a penis. :mad:

2. sometimes girls even lose their virginity to horseback riding
The example only means the HYMEN has been broken. Virginity is still intact if this occurs.

[mbishop94479]

I thought this was cleared up. As everyone else had said, you cannot lose virginity with a sex toy or through something like horseback riding. Losing virginity is having penetrative sex.

[ackmedsgirl666]

this is rediculous
and actually u can lose ur virginity to sex toys or finger penetration
my bestfriend told me

[Tubes]

Your best friend is horribly wrong.

I'm pretty amazed that while you claim to be a girl, you have no idea where a tampon goes.

[APWBD]

not having any for of sex

[joeyjorulz]

this is rediculous
and actually u can lose ur virginity to sex toys or finger penetration
my bestfriend told me

Your best friend is an ignoramus :wub:

[mbishop94479]

You lose your virginity when you have sex. That's all.

[Brighteyes]

For heavens sake will some moderator please do their job and close this thread once and for all...Thank you.

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok whatever
some of u dunno what ur talking about and o think doctors would know more
just stop telling me what i don't know

[Dog Desab]

This is so lol

[mbishop94479]

You asked a question, and you've gotten the same basic answer: you can't lose your virginity without having sex. You seem to know something we don't. Enlighten us.

[ackmedsgirl666]

your just making fun of my thread.....
MODS PLEASE LOCK THIS THREAD......

[Sogeking]

OP request

:locked:

[Brighteyes]

MODS PLEASE LOCK THIS THREAD......

OMG...That is the most sensible thing you've said....MODS PLEASE LOCK THIS THREAD.