Desire

[Reborn unto God]

What if I want to do masterbation but I know its wrong? (for me) And what if I have the desire to see another guy but like women? I don't have the desire to do anything to a guy just peek/see.why do u think this is happening I never used to have this it was just recent. Please give me ur advice and I you feel comfortable please state your religious status. Thank you.

[Philleeep]

Hun i know that your signature says your not curious, but you are, its nothing to worry about, no one is 100% straight. All guys just wanna have a look just to see if they look the same or just want to "compare" there is nothing wrong with it.

[Mike93]

Well, everyone has the urge to masturbate, so you'd have to be really strong not to do it..You probably just want to compare yourself with other guys to see if you're different or something like that.. That's normal

[Liam-NX]

no one is 100% straight.

This. There is nothing wrong with being curious. By nature humans are a curious species. It's perfectly normal.

[michael.95]

You know masturbation is wrong? Who taught you that... It's not wrong, if it was wrong then it would be pointless to have a penis haha!

The desire to see another guy naked but you like woman is nothing to worry about, just a little stage of curiosity. Everyone goes through something like this during puberty.

My religion is Catholic but I'm not a practicing Catholic.

[bravo-charlie]

Masturbation is wrong?No it is not.You are just curious, like many other teens, that is all.There is nothing wrong with being curious.

[Boxerbriefs96]

You signature say that you are NOT CURIOUS.

I think that you are....and curiousity is normal for every teen going through puberty.

[theatregeek]

You're going through the phase every other teen guy goes through. You want to see other guys because you want to compare with them, that's part of human nature. Wanting to compare is not the same thing as wanting to have relations with them, so you could still be straight. This probably just happening because during puberty guys work at different paces and your curiosity is kicking in now.

As for religion, I believe in God, but I don't believe in following an organized religion.

[Speedy29]

your curious like every other teen man..

[LuckyLuke]

What if I want to do masterbation but I know its wrong? (for me) And what if I have the desire to see another guy but like women? I don't have the desire to do anything to a guy just peek/see.why do u think this is happening I never used to have this it was just recent. Please give me ur advice and I you feel comfortable please state your religious status. Thank you.

Your signature isn't the truth, you are curious and THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.

I don't know who told you that it's not okay to like or be physically attracted to men but you need to sit down, alone, without all worldly influences and think FOR YOURSELF what you believe. This doesn't just go for being curious about men, this goes for religion as well. If you're going to sit, do, and believe in what others tell you to and NOT have any opinions of your own that weren't molded by other people than you're an imbecile. YOU HAVE A MIND, USE IT!

Furthermore, I don't know why you think masturbation is wrong because it's not. As they saying goes, 95% of men say they masturbate, the other 5% are liars. It's not wrong, it's healthy and enjoyable.

Now, the reason this is happening is because you're a young male and your hormones are fluctuating like mad and with this your interest in sexual activity increases SIGNIFICANTLY. Because of this, your interest in other boys and men will fluctuate as you advance into puberty. It's normal, natural, and okay.

RELIGIOUS AFFILIATION: I'm not going to be a sycophant when I say that you shouldn't know. My religious affiliation should have NO impact on how my advice sways you because religious affiliation has little to do with who a person is unless it over-consumes their life. I'm a religious person, I'm not Atheist or even agnostic, but I don't believe that religion should dictate your life to the point of fear of your own body and what it's meant to do.

[jovien]

I think it is comepletely correct if feel like you dont wanna state that you not courious, hey its your comfort level. Well I'm a pure Christian (well I want to be christ like i so havent achieved perfecttion yet but working on the constant battle of te killing of flesh but hey!) and i belive that that you are courius to find out about some things, but honestly if you live your life in a strait guy attitudde you wont know exactly what you want you can grab someones shoulder you dont have to be guilty about it, (if this is you concern, pending on your comfort level) if you wanna masterbate, if you have only thoughts about someone you in a realationship with, (if you are in a realationship) and your mind doesnt venture to much you should be okay i try, unsuccesfully, to keep my mind clear but im not that strong willed but my dad is a pastor and i am very open so if you have any questions you can ask me if you not comfortable enough to talk to anyone else about it dont worry about it though your okay guy. So in final
1, you are courius
2. you can change your signature at the bottom to not willing to have any attraction to guys
3. um please talk to me im very open but im willing to tell you about anything you might have trouble with but you might feel weird confessing somethings but please be truthful because liars go to hell 3:(

[jtk339]

You know masturbation is wrong? Who taught you that... It's not wrong, if it was wrong then it would be pointless to have a penis haha!

The desire to see another guy naked but you like woman is nothing to worry about, just a little stage of curiosity. Everyone goes through something like this during puberty.

My religion is Catholic but I'm not a practicing Catholic.

hes right

[judahtics]

you are letting your religious convictions control your emotions. being a christian isn't going to stop puberty and curiosity. being curious doesn't make you gay or bi. if you are curious, which you are, because you mentioned wanting to peek, doesn't mean God hates you. he made you so he knows your desires, denying them doesn't change them.

the bible doesn't condemn masturbation. it condemns lust and pre marital sex. i personally believe masturbation is fine. my mentor, a christian and leader in his church, has talked to me about sex and masturbation, he told me its ok to masturbate as long as it doesn't take over my life and i'm not doing it with porn or anyone else.

in the end, go off your conviction.

btw, im spiritual, but im not into math, as far as im concerned, there could be 1 God or 5,000. i don't know.

[giggles]

its fine to be curious

[teenagedude]

I know this is really late, but I hope you still read it. Look, like these other guys are saying, being curious isn't a bad thing, and we all go through it. But you really have to be careful with masturbation. Your Christian beliefs SHOULD control what you day every single day, because as you know, we're supposed to live like Jesus would. If you can pull off masturbation without thinking anything sinful at all, go for it. But this includes ANYTHING. Fantasying about someone is not gonna cut it. No, the Bible doesn't say masturbation is wrong, but it DOES say flee from all sexual immorality, which means If there is a sexual thought that comes along with masturbating, it's a sin. Your penis is there so you can have sex with your WIFE one day. (and to pee) but it is a sin to use it for immorality. Keep that in mind.

[theUnprofessional]

I know this is really late, but I hope you still read it. Look, like these other guys are saying, being curious isn't a bad thing, and we all go through it. But you really have to be careful with masturbation. Your Christian beliefs SHOULD control what you day every single day, because as you know, we're supposed to live like Jesus would. If you can pull off masturbation without thinking anything sinful at all, go for it. But this includes ANYTHING. Fantasying about someone is not gonna cut it. No, the Bible doesn't say masturbation is wrong, but it DOES say flee from all sexual immorality, which means If there is a sexual thought that comes along with masturbating, it's a sin. Your penis is there so you can have sex with your WIFE one day. (and to pee) but it is a sin to use it for immorality. Keep that in mind.

I'm sorry, I'm gonna gonna disagree with that (its my opinion and we can all have our opinions, I'm not saying you cant have yours! believe what you wanna believe) we can think what we want to think, after all god gave us a body and a MIND to think and make choices- they do have consequences. after all he did give us free will, but not to do harm but to do peace...and thinking about sexual things while wanking is not a sin and we all do it. (wow this is alot of writing, lol) btw before you rage keep in mind we are all entitled for our own opinion