Questions

[DismaliciouSx]

Ok so apparently a lot of you guys speak from experience and are telling me life gets better, understandable and I see your logic very well but, what if it doesn't? What if I just suffer until my natural death and that's how it ends. I suffer my entire life and for what? Normally I try and avoid "what if" questions but from my experiences that for 6 years my life has gotten progressively worse and I just can't imagine it getting better. Actually this is a pointless post because I know what all of your answers will be, delete as you wish.

[RAWWR]

Well. I'm gonna be brutally honest here. It's not gonna get better, because that's life, it involves a lot of shit, but, the good news is, you can get better. You can change the way you deal with it. It's hard, it takes a long time and a lot of work. But you can get to the point where the shit stuff doesn't matter so much because you can make the most of it, and there's always the good times to look forward to. It's about changing the way you think about things, not changing the world.

[ackmedsgirl666]

WHEN LIFE GIVES U LEMONS MAKE LEMONADE
THATS MY LOGIC ON LIFE.....
i know its hard but eventually things will get better
just try to be the best u can be and see where things go from there
dont give up hope

[Fiction]

No one knows what the future holds. No one can tell you it's going to get better, but you can't be sure that it's going to get worse either.

But as someone above said, who we are and how we deal with things changes as we get older. It's not just events that effect how happy someone is it's how you percieve things, and that often changes for the better as we grow up.

[Scarface]

Well buddy, let me put it to you this way. None of us have a crystal ball to tell you and no one in reality has the ability to tell you what will happen. If I would have known all of the things that have happened in my life would happen, I would have done everything in my power to stop it. So let's look at what I've said here. I'm referencing using Past tense using "would have, should have, could have, what if" all of those are phrases are for the past an should be reflected on lightly.

I can honestly say that I do this too, and it's a habit that can be hard to break because one can make a lot of mistakes in their life an literally live years later wondering the never ending question of "What if" though inevitably will never be answered because the past is all done and over with. Though when it comes to the future, honestly, I could get hit by a car or a half ton of dry wall could fall on me tomorrow at work. No one call say what will happen. Though the way to fix that and yes I know this can be a lot easier said than done, but it's reality and the honest truth.

You have to live in the moment. You have to live every moment we have on this Earth to the absolute fullest, remembering that no matter what, we're not promised anything in life. So take advantage of the moment you have, so what if times are shitty? I've lived a lot of my life in the shit. Though I still stand strong everyday hoping for the best. Sounds pathetic, but really the most important part is that everyone can look at life in the same way that you do, but choose not to because that negativity reflects onto your everyday life. And can hinder the outcome of things. Being at home is a very tough thing at times with parents and growing up with the responsibility of school and everything, but just take a step back for a second. You know how much worse things can be for you? You could be jammed up in a 3rd world country drinking murky and unclean water, no home, nice clothes, food or people to hang out with. It could be honestly be a real fuck of a situation. Though honestly we could all have it worse, even in the nastiest of situations, but use the positivity and optimism to push you forward. Aspire to much more than your dreams can take you. Keep your spirit alive and try to to take a step back from life and realize how good things are and how bad they could really be. I wish you the best bud. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here.

:cowboy:

[MadManWithaBox]

I haven't had a nice life. At all. I have few, if any happy memories. There have been times when I've wondered if things would get better.

The answer is, don't stop. Believe. Don't give up hope. Don't spend your life thinking, how could this get worse, think, how can I make it better? Life is tough. Life throws bad shit at you. Don't I know it. But you have to stand and fight. Fight for everything. I'm not saying its easy. You'll get knocked down. Suffer plenty of defeats. Dissapointments.

But you don't know what'll happen in a year. Two years. Three years. If you stop looking you never will. You will find something better, long as you don't give up

"FEARLESS is getting back up and fighting for what you want over and over again....even though every time you've tried before you've lost

[DismaliciouSx]

Well you three have helped so much, but I think that mad man actually stopped and made me think about how I could change all of this