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Twistember
June 14th, 2011, 09:47 PM
So I have these friends. They think that me and this other boy are perfect for eachother. One time when I went to a pizza place with these friends, we played a game of air hockey. One said "If kim wins, you two get married. If you win, you get engaged." and another said "Does he know you two are in love?" He's not the cutest boy in my grade, but he's probably the nicest. Being cute isn't really that important to me anyway. He's super smart, really talented, and really involved. The thing though, is that I have serious issues. He doesn't. I wouldn't mind them getting us together, because after all of them teasing me about it, I'm kind of starting to like him. But I don't really know if this is what I feel because I'm really emotionally unstable right now. My friends don't know that because I put on a different personality when I'm with them. But if I'm going to be with someone, like seriously be with someone, I can't hide myself like that. I'd love to give it a try with this boy, but what do I do if he sees my scars? What would he do? Would he run off and tell everybody? These are the only things keeping me from giving my friends the go ahead. Should i try it?

LuckyLuke
June 14th, 2011, 10:18 PM
You need to express to this boy the following:

"Listen, I really like you and think you're sweet and cute but before I ask you out, you really need to know that there are some things about me that aren't so great. If you're okay with that, that's totally cool and if not that's fine too just let me know"

Of course you'll need to edit that for your own words, but hopefully you get the general idea.

Good luck!