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LongShot157
June 14th, 2011, 08:16 PM
Hello im new to this site, and thought a good topic for me to start with would be about who i am. I am 19, single guy, I dont like to show emotions, other than the ones that cant be crushed and hurt. I dont like to show im happy, sad, scared, though i have a very easy time showing when i disagree with something, or when i get mad. I DO NOT open up to just any ol person, i have had my great deal of friends in my life, and yet only about 2 or 3 people are close enough to me that i feel okay opening up this is something i wish to change. My dating life, used to to be great, i used to be able to pick who i wanted to date, but as time went on i switched to to looking for personality rather than just date to date. but around the same time i switched how i would date, it became MUCH harder for me to find girls who liked me, and when i thought i found a girl who liked me for me and not what i have, i end up getting hurt, everytime. I am borderline deciding to quit dating. I have also noticed that The only girls who do tend to like me for who i am, are girls who are in the age range of like 14-16 or 17or so. The 14 year old and 15 year old girls i would get arrested for dating, or could anyways so i tend to not date, but i will befriend and be an older friend and someone they can come to when advice is needed and such. The 16 and 17 year olds, i dont mind dating, 16 i have been told is to young, but im the kinda guy who believes age is just a number, THOUGH i MAKE sure that the parents know about me. I take it upon myself to sit down with the parents and talk about things such as my age, the age differance, and if the parents dont want me to date, then i dont, i respect there wishes, as well as make sure im not gonna get in trouble for anything. I am a nice, funny, caring, sarcastic, goofy, active (meaning i like to go out and do stuff) i like to play Disc golf, watch movies hang out with friends and play games on computer and xbox.

With this being said, i was hoping that any members boys or girls, fell free to ask me questions about myself i am VERY open so no need to be worried if you think a question will come out wrong or offend me. Also if anyone has and questions about ANYTHING feel free to ask me, i may only be 19 but in my short life, i have been through A LOT, in a vast selection of topics. Some being, ie; drug questions or concerns about them or friends using, dating isnt my strong point but that is more where i am an understanding guy and i have been talking about dating with MANY people since i was about 14 or 15 and have saved many other people relationships (though i cant seem to hold my own), if you have questions on a sexual topic, about your boyfriend or girlfriend or want to know how to ask them a question or anything PLEASE feel free to ask me. Like i stated before i AM VERY open minded and i will not judge any question or criticism any of you have.