Should I tell? :/

[Pancakes]

I am bi but a little more into chicks but I do not know if I should tell my girlfriend or not if she loves me for who I am I think she won't care, any bodies opinion accepted :what:

[Dangoblin]

Hey Pancakes. Have you guys been in a long and committed relationship? I dont mean like a week, but more like 2 months or so. If so, if you feel like you can trust her, go for it. But always remember, girls are VERY chatty (no offense to any girls) and if you guys were to break up soon after you told her, she could get mad and tell people. But it's your choice.

[Pancakes]

Yea we have been together for like 1 year and 2 months I think when I am a little more cleared up about my sexuality I will tell her thanks for the advice

[aussiebunnie]

You are only 13, so its better to tell her the truth. You are still too young, its not a golden rule that you MUST be in a relationship. So just tell her and if she really loves/supports you, she will accept it. If not, then maybe shes not worth it.

[LuckyLuke]

In an earlier thread you stated that you've told your girlfriend and she totally accepts you for who you are and wouldn't tell anyone....

Anyway, you're 13. Chances are that you'll be bi, straight, and gay as you fluctuate through puberty and that your hormones will take you on a wilder ride than Britney Spears infamous paparazzi incident. If you feel so inclined, tell her. But chances are, it'll be on and off.

[bravo-charlie]

You should tell her.She should, if this is a committed relationship, accept that you are bi, and not care.If she doesn't accept you for who you are, then, well she just wasn't the one for you, unfortunately.

[Pancakes]

In an earlier thread you stated that you've told your girlfriend and she totally accepts you for who you are and wouldn't tell anyone....

Anyway, you're 13. Chances are that you'll be bi, straight, and gay as you fluctuate through puberty and that your hormones will take you on a wilder ride than Britney Spears infamous paparazzi incident. If you feel so inclined, tell her. But chances are, it'll be on and off.
Yes I did I stated that because I didn't want anybody asking about that so now that you know soo it's okay

[LuckyLuke]

Yes I did I stated that because I didn't want anybody asking about that so now that you know soo it's okay

I understand that you didn't want people asking about that but, quite frankly, the purpose of these forums is for us to help YOU (and for you to help others) the best that we/you can. If you're not sharing the entire situation with us, we can't properly evaluate the situation and assist you in whatever you need help in.

If you don't want to discuss something, that's fine but DON'T lie about it because people will be less likely to trust you or your advice.

That being said, my previous answer remains that this phase of your sexuality may or may not pass and will likely fluctuate with your hormones. If you feel confident about it, say something, if not- it'll likely change and I'd propose waiting a few years until you're positive.

[Pancakes]

Ok thanks Luke

[kmac130]

did u tell her? if u did how did it go?

[Joshuagoesrawr2]

i say you shouldn't tell.....Your only 13

[Pancakes]

I already told her she said "Does it matter" and she smiled but she doesn't care