On the edge. Boys& Girls

[LongShot157]

So basically, im gonna be strait up, This thread is for boys and girls, this is pretty pitiful. When i was younger i used to be a VERY VERY sarcastic, crude, kid, and yet girls LOVED it, now that im almost 20 and have been looking for personality and traits they have, rather than just looking to date someone to date. It seems that i have lost my "mojo". Not only i am not able to hold a relationship, but its coming to the point where i cant even find a girl who likes me. And this is gonna sound bad, but this has been going on for so long, i am about ready to give up on dating. most recently i was dumped with no reason as to why. She just said it was over.... So what im asking is, Has or is anyone else feeling this way, if you have any advice or opinions please share, and if willing to share, what is some of the reasons you have been left.

[Pancakes]

Well maybe they just think you will act the same way.. :)

[LongShot157]

i suppose that could be, i do tend to act a bit goofy, though i also act mature like a 19 year old guy should. Idk thanks for your thoughts on this pancakes

[Havok]

Nothing wrong with being sarcastic, the crude part...not so much. As long as you've down played the crude a bit then it shouldn't be a problem, it may be that your preferred type of girl is turned off by goofy, you should try to branch out of your comfort zone, no telling what you will find :)

[love is louder]

there's nothing wrong with sarcasm, i am incredibly sarcastic, some people don't get it some people do. all i will say is dont change for anyone, you'll find a girl sometimes it just takes time to find the right one. so hang in there youll be fine as long as you treat her right!

[patrick99]

I'm kinda around where you are,(except 19 part). Maybe the girls your hanging out with are not as mature as you are. Or maybe your looking in the rong plases. Patiences could be the awnser too.

[Marky]

dontforget ppl in their early 20 still use that mindset as in highschool that they are attracted to ur crudness and such. u might be out of that state of mind but noteveryone is so i sugest forr u too find someone else with the same state of mind u got