I need help understanding some werid feelings

[skelly]

Hi my name is daniel im 15 and straight
but lately there have been some guys, all mainly freinds that have made me have these werid feelings towards them like im attartced to them
does this make me gay ? plz help im not sure how to deal with this
im new to this so exuse me if i say anything wrong

[Donkey]

Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality

Welcome to the weird world of "curiosity" - in sexuality terms, that means you're questioning your sexuality and who you're sexually attracted to. It's all cool - you're a teenager and hormones that cause same-sex attraction are flying around in most teenage boys' bodies. Sexual attraction can be split up into two categories.

Physical attraction is the animalistic sensation of, quite literally, wanting to have sex with someone, see their penis, etc. etc. Physical attraction is most likely what you're feeling right now. However to really be fully sexually attracted to someone you also should have emotional attraction - i.e. you "love" them or "really like" their personality. The latter would probably lean towards you being gay or bi more.

It's really nothing to worry about, and not something you have any control over. Things will patch up a bit when you reach adulthood and you'll fully discover your true sexuality once your hormones have settled down. Until then, it's a waiting game. :)

[kmac130]

it doesn't necessarily mean that your gay but if the feelings get stronger u may get the urge to want to experiment and that still doesnt make u gay

[RoseyCadaver]

What kind of attractions,if they're just physical then I would say curious,but if you mean love/likeing them ,then you might be bi.You say you're straight ,correct?Then you can't be homosexual,you're either straight ,bi/bicurious.I would not worry too much about it though,just feel what you like.

[skelly]

Do you think i should talk to them about it because i was hoping that i could talk to someone who is gay maybe they could help me understand this abit better

i think its mainly physical arraction, but im not 100% sure

Please instead of double posting, edit the first post. I've merged your posts together. -Jon/Donkey

[michael.95]

You mentioned you were straight but never mentioned if you attracted to girls. Well being straight means that but you didn't mention it. Is it only guys your attracted to the way you feel right now? Explain the situation more.

If you like both then I'd say your bisexual but it all depends. Only you can tell what you are and can call yourself whatever you like. It's no one else's decision to call.

[samuelm]

Id say ur either gay or bi depending on if u feel these feeling twords girls aswell

[bravo-charlie]

This doesn't mean that you are gay.You are just curious.That is all.

[Genghis Khan]

If it's a physical attraction then you're just curious what it'd be like to go down that road with a guy instead of a girl. I have a few friends who know and get that same feeling sometimes. If you think it's more than just sex you desire from them, then you're either gay or bisexual depending on your previous relationships.

[skelly]

sorry i forgot to mention i am attracted to girls as well

[GravityCatNotAmused]

Hey Daniel...Why does it say 'Guys' If it's just you know who?

[prob1996]

Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality

Welcome to the weird world of "curiosity" - in sexuality terms, that means you're questioning your sexuality and who you're sexually attracted to. It's all cool - you're a teenager and hormones that cause same-sex attraction are flying around in most teenage boys' bodies. Sexual attraction can be split up into two categories.

Physical attraction is the animalistic sensation of, quite literally, wanting to have sex with someone, see their penis, etc. etc. Physical attraction is most likely what you're feeling right now. However to really be fully sexually attracted to someone you also should have emotional attraction - i.e. you "love" them or "really like" their personality. The latter would probably lean towards you being gay or bi more.

It's really nothing to worry about, and not something you have any control over. Things will patch up a bit when you reach adulthood and you'll fully discover your true sexuality once your hormones have settled down. Until then, it's a waiting game. :)

I think this explains it best. I consider myself bi because I'm attracted to guys, acted on it and now discovering I might have feelings for him. Yet I'm totally turned by girls and desire to be with them. Just haven't had the chance to make any emotional connection. :(
I wouldn't worry too much about it and just know that these feelings are normal and may come and go.

[Alison]

Hi..... I'm in a similar situation to you. I have a friend called Charlotte who has been so friendly to me lately, and we ended up kissing... I was so embarrassed, and I couldn't look at her for weeks... I ended up talking to her, and we both agreed it was just a phase. Don't worry, I'm sure you'll be fine :) xxx

[skelly]

so Alison what happens if it isnist a phase ? what if you actually have strong feelings for her deep down ?

[RCT109]

it doesnt make u gay as u said u r only 15 so hormones are raging all throught out ur body and it is most likely a phase so tlk to them and find out what would happen is u acted out on those feelings