I Still Like Her.....

[Alex_16]

Ok so i still like this girl that i went out with like two years ago...she said that she did like me before but i never asked her out and she kinda just got over me...and she says she just wants to be freinds... ...but i still like her...actually i love her....ive asked her if there is any chance of her liking me again but she said not really....i mean i was thinking about hanging out with her this summer and trying to get her to like me again..but i feel like it wont work....i love her... Idk why/how i gave her up ...i want to be with her but idk what to do.... please help :(

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I would just hang out with her more, maybe srop a few hints and flirt. Good luck!

[Alex_16]

i have been...and ive told her that i still like her...and i try being like...idk cute i guess and complement her

[LuckyLuke]

You're not going to like my response but I believe in honesty.

She doesn't like you any longer and she's expressed that to you directly. I know you like her and I know that you want to believe, with all your heart, that she may like you back and she very well may.

But the fact of the matter is, she's said, she's expressed DIRECTLY to you that it's not going to happen. You need to respect that and let her go.

You can flirt, you can be fun, you can hang out with her but don't expect it to go anywhere.

I'm sorry, I know it hurts.

Best of luck to you.

[Alex_16]

i just feel like she has to still like me somewhere deep inside... i mean if she liked me before and we went out...there still has to be something there...right ?

[ackmedsgirl666]

don't harass her whatever you do
if she has stated that she just wants to be friends then so be it
stay her friends hang out with her more and maybe over time u may feel a connection again

[LuckyLuke]

Just because there used to be something there doesn't mean there still is. A flame can always be blown out.

Once again, you can flit, hand out, be friends but please understand that it'll probably never end up being anything more.

[Alex_16]

luke....are u like trying to make me more depressed or what?....im looking for advice ...not for someone to make me feel worse

[LuckyLuke]

luke....are u like trying to make me more depressed or what?....im looking for advice ...not for someone to make me feel worse

If I hurt you're feelings, I'm sorry :(... I sincerely didn't mean to, in fact, that's what I'm trying to prevent.

I don't want you to get hurt and I'm afraid that that's what will happen. I'm trying to offer advice that won't hurt you and won't make her uncomfortable.

If you took it offensivly, I'm sorry. I was just trying to be honest. *hug*

[aussiebunnie]

i just feel like she has to still like me somewhere deep inside... i mean if she liked me before and we went out...there still has to be something there...right ?

If I was in her position I would probably have the same sort of attitude, only because of maybe anger/bitterness that you didn't ask her out. I would bet that she is holding that position because you never asked her out. She would still like you. You can't unlike someone. Even when you are angry at them.

You know if she liked you she probably is hurt that you never asked her out. You need to address this. You need to sit her down and explain to her you always liked her and that you were wrong not to ask her out. Tell her that you will be there for if and whenever she changes her mind.

[Alex_16]

its ok luke...

and thx aussie bunnie... thats kinda what im thinking ...is that she is just like mad and as u said like bitter and upset because i never asked her out again....i guess ill try just talking to her and telling her that im sorry for what i did...that i was stupid because she is the only one for me...and life isnt worth it without her...and that ill be here when and if she likes me again