Going too fast.

[Indecision]

What's your idea of going too fast in a relationship?

It's just, me and my boyfriend. We'd been going out for 6 days when we were making out on his bed; making out meaning he was touching my boobs and feeling me up and we were full on snogging. (Sorry if TMI :s)
I mean, my friend. When she went out with her boyfriend, she hadn't snogged him until like, 2 months after? We kissed on the first day!
I mean, I don't feel down about this at all, I was just wondering if people would judge us for going through our relationship too fast..

[LuckyLuke]

It depends, what's your age, how long have you known this person, where you close friends before?

[Indecision]

I'm 14, known him for six months, we were very close.

[LuckyLuke]

If that's the case, I really don't see much of an issue for me personally.

Quite frankly, I feel that as long as it doesn't move much further than that for a month or so that's really not all that bad. Just be sure FOR YOU that the relationship is more than the physical or, once he gets bored or the physical stops, he'll leave.

Besides, why would you want to go out with someone that doesn't find you interesting? Make sure he likes you for you.

[Indecision]

We're very close. He went out of me for my personality, not my body. He told me that, and he's very believable. He helped me through all my depression etc, he's really sweet and honest, he wouldn't just 'use' me.

[DreamSeeker]

It all depends on the people tbh, like me with my first girlfriend she wanted to move on fast and as it was my first relationship I wanted to take it slow. But I tried taking a different approach with my other ex who took things really slow (She went out with another guy for 2 months and hugged him about once). Where I kissed her, held her hand and hugged her after going out for two weeks on the first date and she said it was way to fast and dumped me.

So it's all up to the couple, if you and him are fine with it then it's alright.

[LuckyLuke]

Well, if that's the case then that sounds perfectly fine. He sounds like a wonderful gentleman! Just be careful. :-)

[Indecision]

Thankyou:)

[AutumnDae]

It all depends on the two people in the relationship. My two friends had sex before they were officially dating, and that worked out fine for them.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 months, and we haven't done any more than kiss. That's just what's worked for us.

[jake14]

its not moving too fast if you both like each other its playing out like it's supposed to.

[Ambrosia]

Moving too fast depends on the couple.

I've seen relationships where the couple had sex within the first week and it turned out as an amazing relationship.

But you should still be careful. I see no problem in making out, though. Where's the fun if you can't!?