Why do some kids have sex ?

[tav18]

Why do some of the kids on here have sex why?- is just for no reason, is it because it's fun or entertaining, or is it because you really love that person wether it's a boy or girl or is it just me

[Joshh97]

Experimenting, you can see why the worlds Teenage Pregnancy Rate has gone up, or it deffo has in the UK.

I can't say I wouldn't turn it down but I would have to love the person I'm not stupid xD

[IFWT]

Well i don't know if you'd call me a kid as i'm almost 18 but... i do it because i love my girlfriend. And because sex=pleassure, easy as that. But i don't experiment with my siblings and all that, to me, that is taking it too far. But i do it for the love, and the pleassure :)

[tav18]

OK i never thought of that way:)

I completly understand now- not that i plan on doing it:D

Please don't double post - I've merged your posts together. Next time edit the first post. -Jon/Donkey

[IFWT]

I completly understand now- not that i plan on doing it:D

May i ask why :)? not that i say you should or anything, it's up to you, i am just interested in your reason really :)

[tav18]

Because i was told that having sex before getting married was wrong and i don't want to risk getting a gir preganant before that time:)

[IFWT]

oh okay :) well i don't think it's wrong :) and i just use protection :) well, i guess we all have our different view on things :)

[NomSan]

I don't see why you have to be married to have sex.
And I guess kids have sex because they think it's fun and exciting.

[tav18]

I guess it's because kids won't be responsible enough to have babies or take care of them.

[Pancakes]

I am 13 and the reason me and my gf had sex was because we are very close and we are in love and plus like that other guy said sex=pleasure

[tav18]

Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhh.

[NomSan]

I guess it's because kids won't be responsible enough to have babies or take care of them.

Still, we got condoms and pills and stuff to avoid that from happening. (Although they're not 100% secure)

I don't think you should wait until marriage. You should just wait until you find that special someone.

[tav18]

Boy you people commet fast! well i gues i need girfriend:D

[Kuervo]

there are some people who do it for the love. even if the person doesnt konw the person theyre having sex with, they just want to feel loved, so they have sex. espeically kids, or teens i shud say lol or some do it just too look cool, which i dont see the point of tht. and th eother reason is what joshh97 pointed out so yeah

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

It's a matter of caring deeply for your partner. It make the two of you complete.

[tav18]

So basically it's safe as long as it dosen't go to far:what:

[Boxerbriefs96]

Well, somtimes its done out of love, but most of the time they dont even know why they did it. Another reason is that they were just expirmenting or wanted to see what it feels like.

[IFWT]

I think the "just wanted to see what it feels like" is a bad reason. But that's just my opinion. I don't think it's something that should just be tried so that you can say "hey, i had sex"... to me, you have sex if you love a person. Doesnt matter if you're married or whatever, you do it if you care for the person. So yeah, needless to say, i'm not the one-night-stand guy :D

[tav18]

If i ever did have sex i'd probably keep it quiet.

[IFWT]

If i ever did have sex i'd probably keep it quiet.

Well see that's the difference from you to a lot of other people. They use sex for bragging. Very wrong in my opinion.

[tav18]

wow really ?
- i must be an angel:)

[IFWT]

Haha yeah where i come from it's all "oh man, i banged this girl last night, so hard man" and all that shit... getting so tired of it...

[tav18]

good i like people who are honest and make right choices:D

[LuckyLuke]

Tav18 you really need to stop succumbing to the opinions and views of others and make up your own. You previously believed that, because you were told to, you should wait until major before sex and now that a few people said "wait for someone you love and use a condom" you're all for premarital sex.

I personally believe that sex can either be for pure pleasure without strings OR for expressing love such as during marriage but YOU need to look at all opposing views and decide on your own.

[ajp1993]

I had sex underage with my 1st gf. It seemed right at the time and as we'd fooled around doing other stuff seemed kinda the next thing to try. Other times though its been for fun, being in a relationship or such.
Its not like I went telling the world about it. Its only recently as me and my friend talk more openly about it did I fess up to doing it at 14.

[Wicked_Syn]

Some people on here just lie about what they say. Some people on here do have sex - some for the wrong reason. And some say they have sex - but they really don't. It's just an attention scheme.

The people who lie about it are no different from the 13 year olds on here who say their dick is 8 inches.. just have to learn to ignore.

[kmac130]

Dam sex @ 13 u go man

[SosbanFach]

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[DerBear]

well in some ways i agree with TAV as i would like to wait.

and i do think people who losse their virginity early on in life i.e before 16 to me seems like a bad idea due to the fact its a 1 time thing once you losse it you losse it.

so i am going to wait as i think it is the right thing to do maybe not until marigge but until i feel i am ready