Caught looking

[jesseincks]

The other day when my class was getting changed for gym I was checking out one of the guys underwear bulges (in the uk we only strip to our underwear) anyway he saw me looking and now everytime I see him it's really awkward.
We used to talk quite a bit but now he doesn't say much to me.
Should I talk to him about it or just leave it?
Btw I'm gay and everyone in school knows.

[DerBear]

The other day when my class was getting changed for gym I was checking out one of the guys underwear bulges (in the uk we only strip to our underwear) anyway he saw me looking and now everytime I see him it's really awkward.
We used to talk quite a bit but now he doesn't say much to me.
Should I talk to him about it or just leave it?
Btw I'm gay and everyone in school knows.

well you see its kinda rude to stare simple as that really

and the fact you are gay will make the situation really awkward due to he might think you like him like him

maybe you should stay away for a bit let the sitution die down in his memory and then talk to him

[Lights]

well you see its kinda rude to stare simple as that really

Depending on the context of the situation. The OP was not being 'rude' by having a look at this guy's bulge.

jesseincks - Do you like this guy in that way or were you literally just checking him out? If you were just checking him out and don't like him in that way, then this is just a simple case of saying "I know it might have seemed weird me looking at you when we were changing, but I don't like you in that way, so don't worry." Or along those lines anyway. However if you do like him, then things change entirely on how to manage this situation... :P

[jesseincks]

I don't think I fancy him it was more because his bulge was literally right in my face aha I wasn't meaning to be rude besides wouldn't it be complimentary to know people would want to be checking them out?
I think I'll take your advice and talk to him, thanks mate!

[Joshh97]

Same happened to me today, but I got a look :D He got 'kegged' in the showers quite funny actually, just let the situation die down

[jesseincks]

Aha so he was looking at you? Did you think it was offensive or a compliment? :)

[SWMG]

Maybe the fact of you being gay made hime feel awkard or scared

[maxii]

yeah. u should. u dont want him to think wrong. unless u like him.

[EON-]

Let time do its thing, it will be forgotten in a week.

[kdddd]

yea dude, i think he might not like it just because your a guy and your looking. But it could also be that he was happy you looked at it, and is now scared and concerned about how he might feel

[michael.95]

If you talk to him regularly try complimenting his bulge and see his reaction. If I was him I'd laugh and be like thanks and just get on with it. Not as if you tried to touch him up or something. I'd say it's no big deal. Let it breeze past.

[Speedy29]

I would just stay away from the situation, what happened, happen let it be

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

Yeah, I would let it simmer for a while.