Long distance,making an impulse?

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

So,
My boyfriend & I.
Have been dating six months.
But now where in different citys, so he wants to find an appartment,get a job and be on welfare by august!! Or he moves his whole life here,living with me in my parents basement..but if we leave and stuff doesnt work,we cant come back.
His dad doesnt like us together so he broke his word when he said we could see eachother once,maybe twice a month...
Which means I cant see him all june.
And lately hes making bs reasons for why we cant talk on the phone.
I love him & he loves me..But I dont want him making impulse choices because he misses me,and doesnt like it at home.
Hes bound bend on us being together,as soon as possible.
Idunno what to do. And im worried because sence i left his depression has gotten worse. I have so much to think about with huge choices to make before july.
Help?!?!

[Kaius]

Well tbf he's being way too hopeful with these things. There is no way he'd have all that done by August even if he did try, where would all the money come from? Things like that cannot be made on impulse, these are huge life decisions. How old are you both and how often do you talk? It might be a good idea to talk it through with him, even if it is on msn.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Were both 16,and i try to talk to him everyother day,but if i call to much his dad says hes sleeping or out. I tried bringing up waiting a term,maybe a year so were more prepared,but then he brought up having a room mate. So idunno. The next time i see him all try to get a response other then " ill figure it out"

[DerBear]

maybe it would be an idea to think things thru as Aarony said it is a lot of things your BF is wantin to do and with finacal backing i am afraid to say not much of this will happen so talk it over with him and maybe give him some space i.e do not phone him as often as you currently do..this will releive his stress due to the fact that if he talks to you he thinks of you his thinking then reminds him of his situation and then it reminds him of his goals whitch then streses him out due to the fact the goals are huge and he may not be able to meet then

so i think you need to talk it over with him and try and come to a sultion even if it does hurt