Lots of friends that are girls but no girlfriend

[Underground_Network]

I have lots of friends that are girls, but i truthfully don't know a girl who would take me seriously if i ask them out. I joke a lot and even my closest friends don't always take me seriously. I could use some advice and i'm also wonderin if anyone else has lots of friends that are girls but can't seem to land a girlfriend and/or find the right girl.

[Glasgow]

Well, not to be offensive or anything, but most guys who have more girl friends than guy friends are concidered gay. (I know thats a stupid stereotype)

Anyways, if you really wanna be serious, then do it in person, and look into her eyes and dont laugh. Let her know that your being serious

[Underground_Network]

A) I'm not gay and B) i never said i had more friends that are girls than guys... its actually the opposite i have a heckuva lot more guy friends than friends that are girls.

[Maverick]

Well I can say this from experience. If you approach them as friends then more than likely they'll stay as friends because they won't see you in another way. If people don't take you seriously you need to think about how do you carry yourself around others. If you're constantly immature and never serious then they have every right not to take you seriously. Do an attitude check and see how you are and mildly be a little more serious. Don't go overboard but don't say anything stupid all the time.

There is nothing wrong with having girl friends. Though if you're interested in a girl, then ask them out. You don't know until you try. Continuing to do the same thing will only give you the same results.

[chelsea714]

you know what, I'm a girl and when I know a guy like you who is constantly joking and never serious, even though he is good looking (and has a fine ass body too) I just can't imagine getting with him because he is like that. maybe when you find that girl, you should just be more serious to her

[Underground_Network]

Thanks for the advice, and btw i think a girl that i've been crushing on since i first met her likes me, but i'm not sure. I also think that most of (not all of) the girls i like are not in my circle of friends, although there are a couple of girls that i'm friends with that i like. It also sucks becuz a lot of the girls that i'm interested in are in relationships (including one that involves two girls going out), but the girl who i said ive been crushing on is single.

[FailureAndHate]

So ask her out if you really want to be with her. I have more girl friends than guy friends, not gay, I just get alone with them better. Trust me though, it's not hard to go out with one, if they're single and you approach them seriously about it, they'll give you a serious answer.