CAN'T KISS MY GF!?!? gbfjkahgla

[LuckyLuke]

Arg! Super stressed and disappointed...

I've been dating this beautiful girl for about 3 months and we've "officially" been a couple for a little over a month now and we really enjoy each others company.

So we have a date today and we take a walk down this beautiful road that has a gazebo with an ocean view in front of it and we sit down.

I FULLY intended to go for the "long kiss" (aka make out) then and there and I really wanted to but she just wasn't showing any of the "signs" (wasn't looking at me, playing w/ her hair, etc), however; I think she was just nervous. Also, this is both our first "serious" relationship.

So now I'm extremely frustrated, discouraged, and bit disappointed with myself..

UPDATE: My cousin, who's close friends with her, has told me that she's said that she doesn't want me to ask... AHH!

WHAT SHOULD I DO!? Do I talk about it with her?

[Donkey]

Yeah, communication is key - in a relationship it isn't good to keep secrets like this. Let it all out and tell her how you feel :)

[Ambrosia]

Honestly, you can easily tell her. Seeing how this is your first serious relationship, she will fully understand despite "not wanting to be asked".

If you are way too nervous to ask then just dive in. Being nervous is completely understandable, and even as you get older and have more relationships (and tons more "first kisses" with new girls) you will keep on being nervous. If you must, take a few minutes to look at her. Have her looking at you and if that's just much too awkward, she will be the one to divert her eyes. You can keep staring at her, as if she means the world to you. You'll know when the moment is right, even though you'll be nervous, and just kiss her. Of course, don't dive into that first kiss like it's an amazing bowl of icecream you've been wanting for the past 3 days!!! Take the first one short and sweet. I'm sure you've kissed plenty of girls in your teenage life, or at least one or two, so take it easy. And even if this is your first actual kiss, take it easy!!

She may not show the signs but she is simply NERVOUS. (:

[Pancakes]

Tell her how you feel girls like guys that can tell them what they are feeling.

[Craig1995]

Tell her how you feel girls like guys that can tell them what they are feeling.

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[LuckyLuke]

But she doesn't want me to ask >.< so what exactly do I tell her? I've told her, honestly, that I think she's beautiful and whatnot. What should I tell her now?

[LuckyLuke]

Problem, erm, "solved" ;) :D... please close thread.